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How Could We Forget How?

When it comes to swingers, How? is a question that can be perceived in at least 3 ways. “How do I convince my partner to try swinging?” or “How do we get the play started?” or “How is she able to put her feet there while were hands are over here and her mouth is doing that?”

The first is the question we’re going to focus on. The second is a question that most swingbloggers or swingcasters have tackled at least once so for the time being you’ll have to check them out to answer that question. As for the third all we can say is “We don’t know how or why but it’s a lot of fun to watch….

Swingers and the Water Cooler

Where I work, we have very tight knit group and we often have very open discussions and our jokes almost always have sexual undertones. We all laugh and usually forget that there are other people in the office who might not appreciate our humor! I am sure the bosses overhear, but just ignore us! I am really surprised we have not been called to HR, but I guess if no one is complaining, we are OK! Water cooler talk is what I call it!

My views of the topics of water cooler talk have changed drastically since entering the lifestyle, although it probably does not have as much to do with the lifestyle as it does just broadening my sexual experiences in general. As Mr. G explained on our About Us page, I was raised in a very religious environment with all sisters, so sex has been a learning experience for me for most of my married life.

Halloween with DesirousParty at the Ritz in Houston

Well the incredibly sexy Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I have determined where we are going to spend this year’s Halloween, the biggest of all swinging holidays! We, along with well over five hundred other sexy swingers will be taking over The Ritz gentleman’s club followed by a hotel takeover in the South Houston area on October 25th!

Halloween is such a sexy holiday, that always brings out large crowds and induces great times. I have to tell you, you have not seen a party until you have a seen a great hotel takeover! Hundreds of sexy couples walking around in lingerie and sexy pajamas going door to door meeting new couples and having a great time! We have been to two hotel takeovers in our swinging career and both experiences rank really high on our list of favorites!

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