What to wear? What to wear! -”For the Ladies” by Mrs. G

This is post number two in the FTL(For the Ladies) a series of tips and advice for the ladies by Mrs. Genltenibbles. 

Well, if you’re anything like me, going to a lifestyle club for the first time was a little nerve-racking!  I had no idea what to expect or what to wear!  I wore some sexy jeans, a cute shirt and high-heel sandals.  Mr. Gentlenibbles swears I wore a turtleneck, but that is not true!!

I don’t remember if there was a theme the first night we went to a lifestyle club, and honestly, we probably made a bigger deal out of the clothing issue than anyone else.  Even though I had on jeans and a nice shirt, I still received plenty of attention and made lots of new friends!

My advice to other women is to wear whatever makes you comfortable, but don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone just a little to bring out the sexy in you!

Many women wear jeans to the club on a regular basis.  Honestly, it’s whatever you are comfortable wearing.  The way I see it, most clubwear is not much different than wearing a bikini or bathing suit in public.

If you’re not sure what to wear to a club, opt for the more conservative version, but take a change of clothes with you.  You can always change at the club, if you see fit.

Before our second trip to the club, I shopped and shopped for the perfect outfit!  I finally found one that I thought I would be comfortable wearing and one that fit! (One size fits all does not fit all!)  After a few drinks and a little coaxing, I changed at the club, and the rest is history!  I actually have a trench coat now!

Changing at the club might be a necessity if you have kids at home.  Sneaking out of the house can be a little tricky!  Watch out for those nosey neighbors, too!

My favorite is the themed parties!  I enjoy finding the “Pretty Kitty” or “Pretty in Pink” or “Naughty & Nice” outfits.  It adds to the anticipation and excitement waiting to see what everyone else will be wearing!  They also make for fun pictures!!

 Be daring, be sexy and have fun!!!

~Mrs. Gentlenibbles