What are Your New Year’s Eve Plans?

It was a tough decision of what lifestyle event to attend this year for New Years Eve.  There are several huge parties in Houston, and with the addition of a couple of new clubs this year the choices are outrageous.   There were about three or four events we really would like to go to, but at the end of the day decided to go with High Maintenance Party’s New Years Eve Party. 

To be honest the number of RSVP’s on the lifestyle websites seem to be a little low for all of the New Years Eve Parties.  I think this is probably related to the fact there are so many events to chose from this year that the crowds at all of them may be watered down a bit.  That is probably not a bad thing.  We enjoy large turnouts because you get an opportunity to meet more people, but if the crowd is to big it can stifle the mood a little bit.

I have no doubts that the HMP party will be top notch with lots of new faces and old friends.  We are really excited about the After Party hotel takeover at a hotel close to the event.  This will be our first big “after party” since entering the lifestyle earlier this year, and we are looking forward to seeing what they are all about. 

The only real worries we have are what to wear.  It is dress to impress, but to be honest I am not that keen on wearing a tie all night.  I am trying to think of way to look classy, sexy, and sophisticated Read more

Large and In Charge; A Heavier Look at Swinging

I was over surfing the forums at Swingersboard.com and came upon a topic that I see mentioned relatively frequently on forums and other discussion platforms.  The topic of being overweight and swinging, and the compatibility of the two.  I firmly believe they are as compatible as “Bread and Butter”.

One of the great things about swinging, is it is all inclusive by nature.  Collectively as a whole we in the lifestyle community have attractions that fit the entire spectrum of people, and thus include (usually with open arms) everyone that makes up that spectrum. 

The first question that comes to my mind, when I hear this topic is raised is, “Does the couple find each other attractive?”  If they do, why would they not expect others to feel the same way.   In my life I have been with women of many different sizes, and I can tell you the size of my smile in no way correlated to the size of their waistline.  There is so much more that goes into the physics of attraction, other than initial looks.

To be honest one of our worst experiences we have had since entering the lifestyle was with one of the “hottest” couples we have met.  The woman was a model type, very sexy, and she knew it.  She made no attempt to connect with me in any way, but rather yelled directions, had an orgasm or two, and was ready to clean up.  Unfortunately, I am a very passionate person and do not enjoy being just a ”boner donor”.   Don’t get me wrong, Read more

Merry Christmas from the Nibblers

We just wanted to take this opportunity to wish all of you a very Merry Christmas.  We hope you all have a wonderful Christmas tomorrow, but don’t forget to meet for a little while under the mistletoe tonight !

Merry Christmas 2007
~the Nibblers (a.k.a. Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles)

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