Midnight Pajama Party - Swinger Style

There is no argument that what the Internet has done for swinging, can only be compared to what the invention of the wheel did for modern day race cars.  OK, so that may be a bit extreme but the Internet has totally revolutionized the practice of Swinging.

Instead of searching through shady “swinger” mags at adult bookstores and trading snail mail between P.O. boxes, nowadays a couple who decides to enter the lifestyle must merely type “Swinger Advice” into the Google search box and they are off and running.  They may not only find many couples close by who also swing, but they may actually be able to have a web cam chat with them that very night!

Although, the rest of the story of the “modernization” and rapid rise in popularity of the lifestyle as a direct effect of communication technology would make a great post, today we are going to focus on the swingers chat room and that handy little devilish invention called the web cam.

On any one of the major swinger websites on any given night you can find lots of couples flirting away at the tips of their fingertips and some of them may be doing it naked in front of a web cam.  On Mrs G’s and my first trip to the CouplesTouch chat room we were blown away by what we saw.  Everything from blowjobs, masturbation, and sex to even one lady choosing to “squirt” on camera. 

Now, it is not that crazy every night and to be honest Mrs G. and I really don’t use chat too much, as we have the kids running around and Mrs. G. is not that skilled at staying up late.  We have although had a pretty interesting private chat which is the true subject of this post.

The Swinger site that we use has literally hundreds of other couples within a relatively short driving distance and over thirty within a few miles from our house.  One night we chose to start up a chat on Yahoo with one of those couples that lived close by. 

We had actually had met the couple once before at a “Meet and Greet” at a vanilla bar in Houston and we hit it off pretty well.  The night we met them was their first time ever to any kind of “lifestyle” activity and due to some advice an *idiot had given them, they had smartly decided before coming they would be going home alone.

*(The idiot I am referring to is ME!  They had written us an email a few weeks before asking advice and I had told them how usually slower is better in these situations.  It definitely makes your first event less nerve racking if you know you are going home alone.  I joke about the idiot comment, as  I still think that is great advice.  Although the night we met them I was probably kicking myself….just kidding……kind of)

A few nights after the “Meet and Greet”, on a Wednesday night they noticed us online and instant messaged us.  We were glad to hear from them and sat down to chat for a little while with the brand new web cam I had bought for Mrs. Gentlenibbles to have when I travel.  (She is so sexy I still have to see her when I am out of town or I can’t……sleep)

Keeping in mind our kids, incredibly heavy sleepers, where already asleep in bed.  The other couple, we will call Dick and Jane, had been out for dinner and drinks prior to the chat.  Jane was flirting like crazy, and before long the clothes started coming off.   It usually takes me about .0276 seconds of seeing Mrs. Gentlenibbles with her clothes off, before I am undergoing certain physiological processes. 

While on camera, the ladies started being a little bit more aggressive and began to give their respective husbands some fantastically hot oral service.  Even though the web cam is just a shade better than Atari in visual quality, I still must say it was pretty hot watching our friends enjoying each other.

Yahoo is notorious for locking up, the picture freezing, or completely closing while using the web cams for chatting.  After the second time of having to get the cameras set back up, someone made a joke about how we only live down the street from each other and that this would be much easier in person.  It was one of those jokes where everyone laughs and then they all suddenly stop and stare silently at each other. 

After a few seconds of silence, Mrs. G and I looked at each other and then told them to head on over.  We watched on the web cam as Dick (keep in mind they were brand spanking new) jumps to his feet and began running frantically around the room trying to get dressed.  Meanwhile Jane looks at us and says are you sure, we don’t want to intrude.  We were quick to let her know how easy we would get over the intrusion, so she could tend to her husband who was by now flailing around the room looking for a missing shoe.  She gave us a wink as the screen on the other side went blank.

Mrs. Gentlenibbles, always the gracious host, looked at me and then darted up the stairs.  Later I would find out in that short five minutes or so it took the couple to show up at the house, she had changed the sheets on the bed, lit candles all over the bedroom, brushed her teeth, and put on her special “play” perfume. 

Within a very short period of time we heard a vehicle pull up at the house and we went to let in our new friends.  Jane was absolutely adorable in a cute little pajama cover up and giddy as a schoolgirl when she came in the house.  Dick on the other hand just had a huge smile on his face as he shook my hand and said, “hello.”

For the next half hour or so, we had an absolute blast just visiting and flirting in our pj’s in the living room late in the evening on a plain old ordinary night in the middle of the week.  The chemistry was absolutely phenomenal and the attraction was strong, not only between the opposite spouses, but between the ladies themselves as well. 

You will find couples that you “click” with and couples you ”play” with, but every so often you just find a couple where the chemistry is explosive.  When you do; stop, take a breath, and enjoy it because it does not happen very often.  As all of this chemistry floating around eventually turns those jokes and laughter into a much more intense emotion and exchange, we soon moved the conversation upstairs.

We carefully and quietly snuck our friends into our room and locked the door.  The next couple of hours were filled with a muffled intensity, reminding us of younger days sneaking around our parents house, as everyone tried to keep their sounds of pleasure from leaving the room.  After the escapade had reached its climax, we once again returned to the engaging and enjoyable conversation as earlier .  Basking in the afterglow of a really special evening we sowed the seeds of a great friendship that has yielded this couple as some of our closest friends both in and out of the lifestyle.

With hugs and kisses all around, our pajama clad friends drove off down the street.  Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I returned to our bed exhausted and enthralled with our thoughts about our experience.  Work came very early the next morning, but that was OK because the smiles came very easy.

~Mr. Gentlenibbles

(NOTE:  If you are really wanting to meet couples using chat then find the swinger site with the most couples in your area, but if you are just wanting the experience of the larger chat rooms and more erotic activity your best bets are Adult Friend Finder or Lifestyle Lounge.  Those two have the largest communities nationwide, thus much busier chat rooms.