Six Things Your Mother Taught You About Swinging!

Listening to the advice your parents gave you growing up, could really help you as a swinger.  Whether we liked it or not, is was good advice for getting us through life then and is still good advice for getting us through the lifestyle now!  Let’s look at some of that great advice dear old Mommy gave us about swinging!

Go ask your Father! 
How many times did we hear this reply when asking Mom for permission to go somewhere or have a friend over.  Mom and Dad understood the importance of including each other to make good decisions regarding you and your safety.  This connectivity in decision making is absolutely critical for you now in making good quality decsions about your activities in the lifestyle.  If at any point one of you begins controlling your experiences and boundaries you are destined for trouble.  Before making any decision, no matter how large or small, you should ensure you both have discussed and are comfortable with exactly what each other wants.  This is extremly important when you are new and still learning this side of each other.  

Your not going out dressed like that…. are you?
First impressions are extremely important in the lifestyle.  If you want to find couples to play with, you should always represent yourself in the best light possible.  This means spend some time and care in taking pictures for your online profiles.  Don’t just throw up some pics you happen to have saved on a hard drive somewhere, but set up a homemade photo shoot and get some nice new pictures.  Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I love doing these homemade photo shoots, and they are usually followed or interrupted by some great sex!

This same habit should be practiced when going out.  Spend some time primping and getting sexy before heading out.  If you show up at an event looking like you just got off work, you probably are going to meet fewer people than if you put on that sexy new dress or outfit you just bought.  It may sound a little shallow, but when finding other couples to have sex with, presentation is a major part of the package. 

Just be yourself! 
Make sure you put your best foot forward, but don’t misrepresent who you are.  Putting pictures on your profile from ten years or 50 pounds ago is not a good idea at all.  Keep in mind, at some point for the “swinging” part of this whole lifestyle thing to take place you are going to meet these people face to face.  Any fibbing you have done, is going to be real obvious at this point and a very awkward conversation may follow.  Often whatever insecurities you may be trying to hide, wether it be your weight, age, or something else, would be no problem with other couples, but everyone has problems with being lied too!

We will stop here for today and post the last three tomorrow!  So for now, why don’t you call your Mom and tell her thanks for all the help she has provided for your swinging experience.

~Mr. Gentlenibbles