Six Things Your Mother Taught You About Swinging!

Listening to the advice your parents gave you growing up, could really help you as a swinger.  Whether we liked it or not, is was good advice for getting us through life then and is still good advice for getting us through the lifestyle now!  Let’s look at some of that great advice dear old Mommy gave us about swinging!

Go ask your Father! 
How many times did we hear this reply when asking Mom for permission to go somewhere or have a friend over.  Mom and Dad understood the importance of including each other to make good decisions regarding you and your safety.  This connectivity in decision making is absolutely critical for you now in making good quality decsions about your activities in the lifestyle.  If at any point one of you begins controlling your experiences and boundaries you are destined for trouble.  Before making any decision, no matter how large or small, you should ensure you both have discussed and are comfortable with exactly what each other wants.  This is extremly important when you are new and still learning this side of each other.  

Your not going out dressed like that…. are you?
First impressions are extremely important in the lifestyle.  If you want to find couples to play with, you should always represent yourself in the best light possible.  This means spend some time and care in taking pictures for your online profiles.  Don’t just throw up some pics you happen to have saved on a hard drive somewhere, but set up a homemade photo shoot and get some Read more

Swingfest Swingdown 2008 - Week 3 Update

Welcome to the third of thirty weekly updates that will be coming every Sunday until the completion of the Swingfest Swingdown 2008.  The Swingfest Swingdown is a motivational contest and tool that Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I, along with some of our readers, are participating in to help us get in the best shape of our adult lives for Swingfest on July 31, 2008!  View the current results of the Swingdown here!

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Well, the third week of the Swingdown was relatively uneventful and good progress is still being made.  Despite travelling for work this week and missing a running session due to illness I was able to post a good 2.5 pound loss for the week.  Mrs. Gentlenibbles did really well this week giving her some encouragement after a relatively slow start to the Swingdown.

Mr. Gentlenibbles 

Weight loss for the week- 2.5 lbs
Total weight loss - 9 lbs
Best mile time - 9:08 min

Exercise
Monday - Jogged 1 mile, ran 1.5 miles, walked 1/2 mile, ran 1/2 mile, walked 1/4 mile
Tuesday - Lifted weights
Wednesday - Jogged 1 mile, ran 3-1/2 miles alternating  walking 3-1/2 miles, walked 1/4 mile
Thursday - Lifted Weights
Saturday - Ran 6-1/4 miles alternating walking 6 1/4 miles

I have switched my warm up on run days from walking 1/4 mile to jogging a mile.  I have found my runs are better with a little more warm up, and I really don’t feel jogging a mile tires me anymore than walking. (Thats a good sign)  This also will help get my overall miles up a little bit, which should help with bulk calorie burning.  I fought off a sinus infection for a good part of the week.  I was actually able Read more

The SecretSide Fantasies - Letter One

(This is the first letter in a series of letters exchanged by Mr. and Mrs. SecretSide, as we began revealing our fantasies to each other in our first steps towards the exploration of the Lifestyle) 

 (To Mr. SecretSide from Mrs. SecretSide)

There was always something attractive about her.  She had a great laugh, a cute body, and I remember her saying that she had kissed another girl, which always intrigued me.  I always wonder if bi women know something that we don’t. Doesn’t it make sense that a woman would be able to please another woman more than a man?  If a woman knows what feels good, why couldn’t she share her knowledge in a sexual way with another woman?  These thoughts crossed my mind in my fantasy.

We were out at our favorite bar one Friday night, mingling in the crowd with our usual group of friends.  We loved choosing songs from the jukebox and sometimes getting on top of the tables or bar to dance.  Jennie and I had been friends for a while now and we were both very flirty every time we went out.  But for some reason this night our flirtations kept being directed at each other, she looked so pretty and I was feeling attracted to her.  We continued to drink, sing, and laugh the rest of the night away.  At the end of the evening we walk backed to my apartment, hand-in-hand.  Once inside, we were in my kitchen getting another drink and talking about what a great night we had.  The subject of her kissing another girl came up, I told her that I was very intrigued and asked her how she liked it.  She said it was very sensual and erotic.  It was about this time that she moved closer to me, leaned in, and kissed me.  It was wonderful and I found myself lost in the kiss.

She took my hand and led me to my living room where we resumed our kiss, we remained standing, fully dressed, teasing each other with Read more

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