Familiar Faces and other . . . “places”

Mr. Gentlenibbles and I got into a discussion the other day about which we liked more, playing with a new and unfamiliar couple or a couple we knew and had played with before. 

There is definitely an intensity and increased eroticism when playing with a couple you don’t know that well.  Mr. Gentlenibbles laughing told me the guys call this getting “strange”.  Referring to taking home a woman you don’t know after picking her up at the bar.  If you find that couple where everything is absolutely clicking and everyone is extremely hot the “playtime” can be off the charts.  The drawback is, there is some associated awkwardness that comes into play when you are playing with a couple you don’t know.  Sometimes a couple that was all fun and games all of the sudden gets quiet and shy when they are naked.

Playing with a couple you know well and enjoy can certainly be an awesome experience.  When you play with a couple you know, you have begun to map the orgasm highway a bit and can really share some smiles.  The familiarity also allows couples to be more open about exploring their turn-on and fantasies.  We really don’t see any drawbacks to being with couples we know as it is usually a guaranteed good time, but if you have limited times to play during the month being with familiar couples takes up spots for the new sexy greener grass on the other side.

What are your thoughts?

Do you prefer familiarity or do you thrive on the anticipation of the unknown?  Many couples enter the lifestyle for the eroticism of being with couples or people who they do not know.  Being intimate with a stranger is a turn on for some people and sometimes produces an overwhelming eagerness to please that person.  For some, this can be a lot of pressure. 

Familiarity definitely has its benefits.  Increased comfort levels may lead to more satisfying sex.  Being able to communicate openly with your play partner allows you to get to know that person and their “other places” and satisfy them more intensely, while enjoying it yourself!

Do you and your partner like meeting and playing with new couples or do you prefer playing regularly with a few, familiar couples?

~ Mrs. Gentlenibbles

Swingfest Swingdown 2008 - Week 10

***Thanks to the great people of Swingfest, the winner of the Swingdown will recieve a free set of passes to Swingfest 2008!!!*** 

Welcome to the 10th of thirty weekly updates that will be coming every Sunday until the completion of the Swingfest Swingdown 2008. The Swingfest Swingdown is a motivational contest and tool that Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I, along with some of our readers, are participating in to help us get in the best shape of our adult lives for Swingfest on July 31, 2008! View the current results of the Swingdown here!

Update-Swingfest discount now available through Swingercast

This week could best be described as “slowly regaining momentum”.  With the monstrous let down in intensity we both had over the last few weeks, we were finally able to get a little bit of traction by repeating last weeks efforts with some quality time at the gym and track while keeping the eating healthy.

I walked upwards of 12 miles (still hobbling a bit) and got to the gym once this week.  I managed that and eating relatively healthy all in the middle of New Orleans for a week long conference!  When I wieghed I had actually gained a 1/2 pound which was a bit frustrating, but after the weeks of debauchery Read more

New Contests - Free Swingfest Passes!!!

The great people of Swingfest have donated 10 Swingfest passes for us to pass on to our readers worth $300 each!!!  We are enjoying thinking of ways to give these things out. 

The first way is obviously by signing up for the Swingfest Swingdown, but Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I are starting to get the feeling we are alone on that one, so we better find some easier ways for you guys to get your hands on a ticket to the greatest swinger show on earth!!!

So here are a couple of contests we are launching today!!!!

Contest one:

The Swinging Gnomes!!!

All you have to do is take a picture of any gnome in a swinging themed picture!  Whether it be a gnome enjoying a good house party, being flashed by a hottie, or sitting in the parking lot of your favorite swingers club; just be creative. 

The only requirements are: 

The picture will be published on the blog. 

A gnome must be in the picture.  The words gentlenibbles.com must be somewhere in the picture. 

If there are people in the picture we will blur the faces and private areas before publishing on the blog! (Feel free to do this yourself)

The picture must be in the spirit of the lifestyle.

Email entries to thenibblers@gentlenibbles.com

We will give a Free Swingfest Pass, good for singles or couples, to the first two submissions we receive!!!! 

Then for all the rest of the submissions we will hold a contest starting on April 2nd,  and let the readers pick the winner for the third and final Swinging Gnome Swingfest Pass!!!

So get out your cameras, use your imagination and let’s have some fun!!!

Contest two:

Dear Nibblers…

For all of you that don’t own a camera or just hate the art of photography, we have something for you as well!

Send us a sexy story for the blog!

It can be long or short, fiction or nonfiction, good or bad; we don’t care. 

The only requirements are:

It must be in the spirit of swinging! 

It must be an original work by you!  When you email the submission you must state!  “I am the original author of this work and I agree to let Gentlenibbles.com publish it on their website”

We will hold a contest starting on April 16th.  Where voters will have two weeks to pick the best two submissions for a free passes to Swingfest!

Email entries to thenibblers@gentlenibbles.com

Let’s hear what you have Read more

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