It’s Ok, They Are Only Committing Adultery…
May 22, 2008 by Mr. GentleNibbles
I am currently on a plane flying between the great cities of Chicago and Houston. As the older male steward was bringing me my drink and peanuts, I witnessed an intimate exchange between him and the older female flight attendant. (P.S. She is a bit of a cougar 
)
After the gentleman handed me my snacks and moved on to the row behind me, the female stewardess was making her way to the back of the plane with her empty drink tray to refill.
As she came up behind him, she slipped her hand down low and grabbed his ass as she pushed up against him hiding her actions from view. She stayed in this position with her hand on his ass for about a minute while he finished passing out his drinks. From where they were standing I was most likely the only one on the plane to see this
The fact she stayed in that position for so long, and the evidence I have seen in their expressions to each other since have convinced me they are intimate with each other.
It is funny about how being in the lifestyle changes your outlook on things. After seeing a wedding ring on the gentleman, I caught myself smiling at the fact that I had found another swinger on the plane.
Of course, quickly I realized the absurdity of my assumption as in reality this most likely is a case of a man having an adulterous affair. All of the sudden I felt a little disappointed, as I thought to myself “What a shame.”
It is not that I am a judgemental person, or the fact that I look down on the two, but merely the fact it feels like such a sad state of existence. In an affair you are forced to lie to the person you are closest too.
I started thinking further, how even more incredibly sad it is that our society would be relieved to find out a couple is merely struggling with extramarital affairs, instead of a couple choosing to participate in the swinging lifestyle.
Why is it so much more acceptable to people for me to choose to lie to my wife and have an adulterous affair, versus having a wonderful marriage that happens to include an open sexual relationship.
I can think of few “evil” things in life, that don’t involve malice, ill intent, greed, or apathy. Somehow the lifestyle which contains none of these traits is a societal exception to that rule.
Furthermore, this so called “evil” practice of swinging encourages honesty, openness, and a better understanding of yourself and your spouse. So then why would Dr. Phil rather I was cheating on my wife, instead of enjoying this fulfilling sexual life with her by my side???
Just random thoughts on an airplane…
~Mr. Gentlenibbles
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“Why is it so much more acceptable to people for me to choose to lie to my wife and have an adulterous affair, versus having a wonderful marriage that happens to include an open sexual relationship.”
Great line. Anything outside the social norms scares the hell out of people. Its great you have chosen this lifestyle and you are right it allows for a more honest, openness and understanding of each other. You couldn’t have said it better.
I’m looking forward to reading more.
Thanks Tom
We greatly appreciate the feedback! It is incredibly odd how society views some things!
We look forward to providing you more to read!
~Mr Gentlenibbles
Well this is one case you spotted . What about the ones that happen behind the walls , curtains or may be in not so public areas
That is a very good point Kashif!!!
Marriage is an institution that in my opinion is promulgated by the church to limit promiscuity, but however has become so embedded in our culture that we don’t even think twice about how odd it is. It seems pretty unnatural. When you consider the divorce rate is what it is (and that doesn’t even include those that are still in their marriage — unhappily at that)
That’s not to suggest I wouldn’t ever consider getting married - but I know it’s not how fairy tales make it out to be. My brother is married and his wife is bi - and he has no problem if she were to bring a woman home, if he could at least watch.
Jaded,
Thanks so much for your comments! Why my opnion of marriage is not quite as pessimistic as yours, I absolutey agree with you on monogamy. I can tell you we are extremely happily married. We were before and after entering the Lifestyle. On the other hand there is no comparison to the intensity of our sex life and our sexual connection with one another since we started sharing our bed.
Your brother sounds like most of the guys I know whether they are swingers or not!
Most of them just wish there wife was Bi! lol
Mr. Gentlenibbles!
P.S. I just read your latest post on the blog and will be checking back in on your site! Great stuff!!! I would have left you a comment, but don’t have a blogger account to use!