Female Ejaculation - A New Technique

(Warning - This post contains artistic renderings of the female anatomy as well as frank discussion of sexual techniques) 

Female Ejaculation otherwise known as Squirting is the spontaneous release of fluids from the urethra of a female during sexual intercourse.  Squirting really came into the public eye after the release of a very successful adult movie, The Grafenburg Spot in 1985. 

In this movie, all of the “squirting” was staged for cinematic purposes, which led to the controversy over the reality of this phenomenon.  Since then it has slowly worked its way out of legend or urban myth to an accepted reality in the eyes of many women. 

Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I fully believe in the reality of female ejaculation as Mrs. Gentlenibbles is a card carrying member of the club.  In a post entitled Its Raining Its Pouring, we wrote at the end of last year, we described how Mrs. “G” entered the world of squirting females.  We would like to use this post to describe the technique we successfully used in helping Mrs. “G” find her G-spot as well as achieve an ejaculatory orgasm.  We have now successfully used this technique with some of our friends and swinging partners who were having difficulty in achieving a squirting orgasm as well.

The typical technique most often referred to in articles addressing g-spot stimulation describe the following: 

The woman is usually sitting or laying on her back with her legs spread and slightly elevated.  The person stimulating the G-spot sits in between the woman’s legs and uses two fingers slightly bent in a palms up position to gently stimulate the wall of the vagina directly above the vaginal opening.  The G-spot has a different texture than the rest of the vaginal wall that helps to identify it’s presence. 

Once the G-spot is found it is usually recommended to keep the fingers still while moving your hand in and out with a gentle rocking motion to achieve the proper stimulation.  Some women like this movement slow and gentle, while some prefer a very rapid pace associated with this technique.  The person providing the stimulation should also consider clitoral contact as this usually increases the overall effect.  This website does a much better job of illustrating and describing this approach.

With Mrs. Gentlenibbles, as well as others we have met ,this approach has yet been able to work.  After a lot of trial and error (that was quite fun by the way), this was a technique that we found worked the best for Mrs. “G”.

Mrs. Gentlenibbles would lay flat on her abdomen with her legs spread at about a thirty or forty degree angle.  She would be completely relaxed, as we would often try this right after waking up on a Saturday morning.

I would lay down beside her with my face about level with her posterior, which is a pretty good view I must say.  Then with my hand closest to her, I would insert my thumb into her vagina facing down and wrap my hand around the front exterior wall of her vagina where I was actually gripping the front wall of her pubis.

This position will place your thumb almost directly over her G-spot, you can feel around for the texture change to be sure.  I would begin slowly stimulating her G-spot with just thumb movement until I could feel her start to moisten and begin reacting to the sexual excitement.

As her arousal increased, I would increase from just thumb movement to now slowly moving my hand back and forth.  As I do this, I am stimulating her G-spot with my thumb, her clitoris with the palm of my hand, and putting a little pressure on her lower abdomen/pubic wall with my fingers.  This slight pressure countering the pressure of the thumb we have found to be very important in finally achieving ejaculation.

After several minutes of this Mrs. Gentlenibbles will be very noticeably aroused with flushing skin, increased breathing patterns, and most importantly more moisture in her vaginal cavity.  When I notice her entering this phase of arousal, I know her body is just about ready to squirt.  At this point I will increase the tempo of my movements quite a bit, and gently increase the pressure on both her G-spot as well as pubic wall.

The other thing I do really seems to seal the deal.  I change my overall movement slightly at this point.  I push in deeper with my thumb and reach further up her vaginal wall and then almost use a “milking” motion as I pull my thumb outward.  Usually after just a few seconds of this Mrs. Gentlenibbles will achieve ejaculation.  Once she is in that heightened stage I can usually repeat this last step over and over causing her to squirt every time until one of us yells “uncle” due to exhaustion.

I should warn you, that you may want to have a towel in place before attempting this, as the amount of fluid can be much more than you would expect.

A couple of things to have in mind before attempting this.

1. Make sure the lucky volunteer has emptied her bladder.  The sensation of squirting feels much like releasing her urine, and she will feel much more comfortable giving in to that sensation if she knows her bladder is empty. 
2. Guys cut your fingernails and consider smoothing them a bit, as you may be performing some rapid work near some very sensitive equipment.
3. Don’t do this on a woman just because you think she will like it.  If she is not expecting this your rapid assault will most likely just feel odd.
4. If the female is so inclined the person doing the stimulating can use their other hand to perform a little anal stimulation.  Many times this will greatly intensify the overall effect.
5. Important- Don’t be discouraged if this technique or any technique does not work right away.  It took Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I several months before she finally achieved ejaculation.  Just keep practicing  That is the fun part, remember.  Often the barrier is mental more than sexual and over time mental barriers usually find their way of resolving themselves.
6. Many believe that as woman age their G-spot plays a  much larger role in their overall sexual arousal making them more prone to squirting.  In our experience in the lifestyle we have found the ratio of woman who squirt over thirty versus those under thirty is pretty large!
7. Have fun!

We really hope this technique helps some of you out there who may have been trying this for awhile.  Please leave us a comment and let us know if this works for you, or if you have your own suggestions please share them with the rest of us!

Happy Squirting!

~Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles

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