What if We Are Not That Sexy? - Swinger Says What?

This “Swinger Says What?” post comes to us from an Arizona couple and their question is regarding looks and the Lifestyle.  They sent us this email a couple of weeks ago.

Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles,

Let us begin by saying “THANKS”. As very new swingers, your website has been helpful to us in providing answers to many questions.  

We are writing this letter to ask you a question for one of your “Swinger Say’s What?” posts.  Your thoughts and opinions on this would be appreciated.

Our question is this, “What is it like for average or even less than average looking couples when trying to find a couple to play with?”  We don’t consider ourselves ugly, but when looking at some of the profiles on SDC we realize we are not as attractive as many of the couples.

We are pretty comfortable with our bodies and appearance, but that does not mean we will enjoy being rejected over and over.  Are we wasting our time, or worse setting ourselves up for disappointment?

Thanks,

BJ and Marie
Arizona

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Gentle Nibbles Has a New Sponsor - You Reap the Benefits!

We are so excited to announce a new sponsor that has joined us here at Gentle Nibbles.  Shoes Only Travel, owned and operated by a real life and completely sexy Lifestyle couple, has come on board to help keep gentlenibbles.com alive and well.

This top notch husband and wife Lifestyle travel agency, is going above and beyond routine sponsorship as they are also now extending a major discount on a premiere luxury Lifestyle cruise to all of Gentle Nibble’s readers.

The cruise, aboard the Windstar, Windsurf sail driven cruise ship, is set to take sail on January 24, 2010.  This is not going to be a mixed vanilla and Lifestyle cruise aboard an ordinary vessel, instead this is a completely Lifestyle “Au Naturel” cruise aboard one of the premiere motor/sail luxury cruise liners in operation today.  The Windsurf will be carrying 152 sexy Lifestyle couples when it departs out of Barbados heading for six other Caribbean stops along it’s route. Read more

Personality - The Swinging “It” Factor

The science of sexual attraction is a complex beast well above my comprehension, but I do know this.  Sexual attraction inside the Lifestyle and outside the Lifestyle is very different. 

Sexual compatability is the name of the game in the Lifestyle.  Ranking far above abs, great legs, big tits, perfect lips, and an ass you can bounce a quarter off of is sexual compatability.  Sure, all of the aforementioned qualities play a large role in sexual compatability for some some couples, but even more important are things like attitude, confidence, intelligence, wit, and all thing persona!

As an individual we have specific features that turn us on or turn us off.  Things like sexy bare feet, broad shoulders, blonde hair, sensual kisser, round ass, etc.  These are qualities and images that may trigger a sexual urge in us as an individual, but swinging is not a solo sport! 

When a couple swings, they are not necessarily blindly trying to please some individual need or desire.  As a couple, they are working to increase the intensity and enjoyment of their sexual relationship as a pair. 

This may be done in part by finding that sexy blonde that is a great kisser, but it is more often accomplished by finding that right individual or couple that represents fantasies and desires while at the same time keeping comfort levels high and the chemistry strong. Read more

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