Halloween with DesirousParty at the Ritz in Houston

Well the incredibly sexy Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I have determined where we are going to spend this year’s Halloween, the biggest of all swinging holidays!  We, along with well over five hundred other sexy swingers will be taking over The Ritz gentleman’s club followed by a hotel takeover in the South Houston area on October 25th!
Halloween [...]

Standing Tall – Battling an Uncooperative Penis

Last week we discussed the phenomenon many new male swingers face when first entering the lifestyle of obtaining and maintaining an erection during play. 
If you did not get a chance to read that post, click here to quickly read it before going on with today’s article.  The main discussion of that post was that even though most men [...]

The Twenty Percent Rule

I received an email from some friends of ours in the Lifestyle the other day. The email, in response to one of our posts mentioned a rule they have that I think a lot of new swinger couples would benefit from knowing and putting into place in their swinging repertoire.
The rule is quite simple. Both [...]

What if I Can’t Get and Erection? – Swinger Says What?

If I was to open my Encyclopedia Britannica and open it to the swinger’s section, I would find that one of the most asked questions by new swingers goes something like this,
“What do I do if I have trouble getting a hard on?  Is this common? What kind of reaction should I expect?”
We get emails regarding this topic quite [...]

Selecting a Sextastic Swinger Themed Costume for Halloween

Well, it’s that time of year again! One of our favorite times of year as swingers, and not just because of the cooler weather, jack-o-lanterns and earlier sunsets. . . if you haven’t figured it out by now, we in the lifestyle love to dress up! We don’t necessarily wait for Halloween to come around [...]