Halloween with DesirousParty at the Ritz in Houston

Well the incredibly sexy Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I have determined where we are going to spend this year’s Halloween, the biggest of all swinging holidays!  We, along with well over five hundred other sexy swingers will be taking over The Ritz gentleman’s club followed by a hotel takeover in the South Houston area on October 25th!

Halloween is such a sexy holiday, that always brings out large crowds and induces great times.  I have to tell you, you have not seen a party until you have a seen a great hotel takeover!  Hundreds of sexy couples walking around in lingerie and sexy pajamas going door to door meeting new couples and having a great time!  We have been to two hotel takeovers in our swinging career and both experiences rank really high on our list of favorites! Read more

Standing Tall - Battling an Uncooperative Penis

Last week we discussed the phenomenon many new male swingers face when first entering the lifestyle of obtaining and maintaining an erection during play. 

If you did not get a chance to read that post, click here to quickly read it before going on with today’s article.  The main discussion of that post was that even though most men do not admit to struggling with “performance anxiety”, it is a relatively common occurence especially among new swinger couples.

Fortunately, it is almost always a temporary problem often disappearing after couples gain a little more experience and becomes more comfortable in play situations.  This however does not make the experience any less troubling for the man involved, thus today we are going to discuss some things you can do to help make your soldier stand at attention when he is most needed! Read more

The Twenty Percent Rule

I received an email from some friends of ours in the Lifestyle the other day. The email, in response to one of our posts mentioned a rule they have that I think a lot of new swinger couples would benefit from knowing and putting into place in their swinging repertoire.

The rule is quite simple. Both spouses should always ensure that in any swinging situation they pay at least twenty percent more attention to their spouse than anyone else! It is amazing how many new couples who have never had jealousy issues before can run into some problems during their first few experiences. When examined more closely, most often the source of the jealousy is not the fact the spouse is with someone else, but the fact their partner feels alienated or left out of the experience. Read more

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