Iniquity Lost, Radiance Gone, and Venus No More

The last month has taken a terrible toll on the swing clubs in the Houston area.  Within a period of a couple of weeks, three separate clubs shut their doors for the last time and closed up shop.  These clubs were Iniquity, Radiance, and Venus.  The first two had been around for awhile, but the club Venus we had only heard about a week or two before we heard of it’s closing.

At first news of this a small amount of panic appeared, as we were afraid there was some larger anti-swinger forces at play in the area.  In reality, it was probably needed and will only enhance the Lifestyle atmosphere in the Houston area.

You see, in Houston, we had a unique problem arise over the last year and a half.  That problem was a tremendous proliferation of swing clubs within the Houston metroplex area.  We grew from two legitimate clubs a couple of years ago to five or six clubs operating last month.  This may sound like a great thing which confirms the tremendous growth of the Lifestyle in the Houston area over the last few years, but in reality even with the explosive growth of new swinger couples venturing into the Lifestyle there still was not enough warm (and lubed….) bodies to support all of these clubs.

As a matter of fact, one our biggest complaints over the last six months or so has been trying to find a club with a really good sized crowed.  The presence of so many choices for couples meant that all the clubs had decent, but smaller crowds and it was much more difficult to find the really big parties! 

Many of you know that Iniquity was one of our favorite clubs, but we were beginning to see the writing on the wall as they were really having difficulty drawing a steady crowd from weekend to weekend.  In their location with high rent and luxurious facilities, they needed good member support in order to hang in and that just never happened.

Along with all of these clubs competing for your sex swapping dollars, there has been a number of party planners planning large meet and greets at vanilla locations across the city.  These meet and greets are often drawing hundreds of couples who probably would have been in a swinger’s club, if there was not a meet and greet to attend.

Some hardcore Lifestylers will say that these swinger meet and greets at vanilla locations are bad for the Lifestyle and that swingers should support the swing clubs in our area, as they support our Lifestyle.  Mrs. G and I are not of this opinion.

First of all, the vanilla locations bring tons of fresh meat….oops, I mean new couples, that would never have the courage to attend a swing club.  Secondly, they are just absolutely too much fun to do without them.  Something about all that sexual energy trapped in a vanilla bar, makes the after parties explosive! :)   Finally, I love to use a little bit of my imagination when it comes to staring at sexy new couples, and the vanilla bars bring out the sexy jean skirts and other outfits deemed a little too conservative for the typical swing club!

So, even though we will miss Iniquity as well as the other clubs, Houston’s swinger scene probably just got a little better now that there gone!  At least we hope!!!

If you don’t live in Houston, you have got to come party down here at least once in your swinger life!  It is such a great place for the Lifestyle, that we firmly believe can hold it’s own against any other sexy scene across the country!!!

Your partners in horny hijinks!

Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles

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5 Responses to “Iniquity Lost, Radiance Gone, and Venus No More”
  1. WeDive says:

    We don’t consider ourselves party planners by any stretch, but we do host some meet and greets from time to time. Sometimes we host them at LS clubs, and sometimes vanilla clubs. It just depends on the function, theme, or purpose of the meet and greet……we plan it at an appropriate place.

    This past weekend we hosted a meet and greet at a vanilla bar; we had 154 rsvp’s on CouplesTouch. We had a great turnout, including many that weren’t RSVP’d at all. The vast majority of this particular crowd doesn’t frequent any LS club, and many of those that do don’t go on a regular basis. One of the reasons we love it, because there are many new faces. Each and everytime we’ve held that particular meet and greet we’ve met a lot of new people and a great time was had by most.

    Since the majority of this crowd doesn’t normally frequent LS clubs, one of the owners of Club Cave came out to this meet and greet and the one prior and actually spent time talking to attendees inviting them to his club. He was also offering discounted admission cards to get people over to try Club Cave. Pretty smart we thought and it was well received by our party goers.

    We agree that it is alarming when the LS community loses some choices; we firmly believe that the LS clubs need to change their approach or marketing if they want to attract new members. We’re not exactly sure what the answer is, but we know that if they only continue doing what they’ve always done, they will continue to get the same results.

    BTW – we love you guys site, excellent content and very professional looking. Great job!

  2. WeDive,

    Hey Hotties! We keep wanting to head out to one your meet and greets. It seems you guys only plan them when we have family or vanilla friends in town… :)

    We agree with you 100% that these bring out tons of couples that would not step foot in a Lifestyle club and it is a much more inviting atmosphere for couples on the “swinging” bubble, after all our first outing was at a meet and greet!!!

    Keep up the good and sexy work!!!
    Mr. Gentlenibbles

    P.S. Is that your website in the linkback? It is the first time we have seen it, but it looks like you are off to a great start!!! You will love WordPress. Let us know if we can help with anything and if it is yours so we can set up with a link!

  3. WeDive says:

    Yep, thats our site. Brand new. We have some things to get off our chest, you guys inspired us to put it into action. ;)

    While our themes are similar (swinging, answers, etc) we’re sure we’ll have some different takes on things and be complimentary information to what you guys put out. That’s one of our goals anyhow.

    We added you guys to our blogroll first thing!

    We’ll appreciate the link, and look forward to reading, learning and contributing more along the way.

    Thanks for all you do — see you guys soon!

  4. Eathan says:

    I didn’t realize there were that many clubs in Houston. I haven’t gone to houston for Lifestyle fun in ages… but I guess i need to check it out more than surfing profiles on SDC.

  5. you don’t need party planners if you are just going to hold a very small party for your personal friends ~;”

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