Swinger Karma Sutra

Sex inside the Lifestyle is not just about a variety of partners and even though we often term ourselves soft swap or full swap, swinging is not just about the exchanging of partners or spouses for sexual fun.

One of the things that makes sex so incredible inside the Lifestyle is the presence of that third, fourth, fifth, etc. person and the added intensity and options those sexual partners bring.  Once more than two people are involved the amount of positions and opportunities for pleasure increase exponentially.

So we thought it might be fun to spend some time perusing the naughty realms of our memory and imagination for a few minutes to try to come up with some of our favorite scenarios, situations, and positions we have discovered over the last year.  We just made up the names so if you have a better name for them just let us know!

Cowgirl Lollipop

A favorite of Mr. Gentlenibbles, as he loves to see Mrs. Gentlenibbles in this position.

This position involves female #1 riding cowgirl style and sitting straight up on top of male #1, or strap on wearing female #2, while giving a blow job to male #2 standing alongside her.

If female #2 is not wearing the strap on and is free she can sit on the face of the lucky son of a bitch laying flat down on the bed allowing him to give her oral at the same time as he is being ridden by female #1. If female #2 was wearing a strap on, leaving male #2 free, he can manuever to allow female #2 to give him blow job of his own.

The Full Monty 69

Another fun position that is really hot as hell is this take on two couples using the 69 position.

In this scenario both ladies get in the 69 position while each husband picks an end and goes to work.  Each female gets to enjoy the feeling of sexual penetration while having their clit sucked by the other woman.  Oral and anal options are available as well.

Doggie in the Window

This is really fun position that gives you a great view of your spouse enjoying themselves with someone else.

Both ladies assume doggie style position while facing each other allowing them to kiss and trade sexual glances during sex. In the meantime each man stands behind one of the bent over ladies having doggie style sex with them while watching their spouse be pleasured by the other man.

Stacks-o-Pleasure

Okay ladies, I apologize as this one is probably not the best for your pleasure, but the thought of it just makes Mr. Gentlenibbles so hot we have to include it.  We have not tried this sexy little number yet, but it is definitely on our must try list.

This position involves two or more sexy ladies simply laying on top of each other while the lucky man crawls between their legs and take turns pleasuring each woman and enjoying the hell out of himself. 

The more ladies in the pile, the bigger the, “holy crap this is cool!” factor. While this may not be a great position for actual play it would be one hell of a kinky way to get the play started in a group.

King’s Throne

This position requires the use of the chair, couch or edge of the bed but can be lots of fun.

In this position male #1 simply takes a seat on the couch while female #1 stands on the couch straddling male #1’s face exposing herself and allowing male #1 to enjoy eating her out. 

At the same time female #2 is on her knees doggie style on the floor leaning over and giving a blow job to male #1.  This allows male #2 to stand behind female #2 having sex with her doggie style and enjoying the show. If male #2 has a camera everybody wins!

Beautiful Buffet

Let’s be honest. Ladies rule in the lifestyle and because of that they should always get special attention. One great way to do this is the beautiful buffet position.

Whether you have two couples, four couples, or 15 couples this position fits and the more people you have the better the buffet. The lucky female simply lays down in the center of the bed or in the center of the room while everyone else positions themselves in a giant circle around her alternating man and woman.

The female in the center, the buffet, closes her eyes and just enjoys herself. The rest of the group starts by lightly skimming their fingers across her skin all over her body.  At  first the group stays away from her erogenous zones, but after a few minutes they spread their attention to her more sexually responsive areas and also begin massaging as well as the light caressing.

After a few more minutes have gone by individuals in the group can begin using their mouths and tongues to allow the buffet to enter full orgasm mode. If the group is comfortable enough with each other and full swap is an option the next step could be penetration by various members of the group.

Keep in mind, though your primary focus is the buffet you are surrounded by hotties on both sides for some extra curricular activity.

All of the position listed above are merely suggested as good starting points and obviously have hundreds of variations possible.  As we can attest from personal experience one great way to learn some new positions is somehow convince six or seven couples from the club to come back to your small hotel room for the after party.

After about 30 minutes lift your head up from what you’re doing and grab a pen and paper to take some notes because you’re going to see human knots and pretzels all over the room.

So what are some of your favorite positions? Let us know we’d love to try (oops – we meant hear) them.

Mr. and Ms. Gentlenibbles.