HOT Party Preparation

In preparation for the “HOT HOT HOT vs. HOT HOUSTON” party to take place next month, I thought I would take the opportunity to start a discussion for those who have not attended a lifestyle club to provide some insight and allow everyone to give their take on lifestyle clubs. 

The first thing to start thinking about attending the party is attire.  The theme of this particular party is HOT, so just about anything sexy goes!  Of course, the sexier, the better.  If you are having doubts about whether or not to wear a skimpy outfit, bring it with you and change later in the night.  It is amazing what a couple of drinks will do for your confidence.  If you don’t already have an outfit,  now is the time to start shopping, especially if you are going to order online!  You want to allow plenty of time for shipping and time to come up with an alternate plan if the ordered outfit does not fit!  I am notorious for waiting until the day we are going out to go shopping, and believe me, it makes for a very stressful day.  There are many other things to be doing the day of the party like taking a nap! 

Other tasks to take care of now are sitter arrangements, if necessary, and hotel reservations if you plan to stay the night close to the club.  The party is from 9pm to 4am (did I mention take a nap that day?), so you are going to be tired!  A long drive home is the last thing you will want to embark upon at 4am.  If chemistry sparks with a special couple, you may want to have the option to get to a hotel room. 

For the ladies, if you plan on getting wax for the big party, be sure to schedule your appointment a day or two before the big day to ensure that you are not  tender or sore.  Be sure to read other articles on the site for refreshers and tips on waxing and shaving! 

The day of the party, like I said before, either sleep as late as possible or take a nap!  It is going to be a late night in swingtown!  Do any last minute errands and pack a bag with all essentials, including condoms, lube and other necessary things. 

The Club does allow play in the VIP rooms, but they are not very private.  If this is a first experience, it may be more comfortable to play in the privacy of a hotel room.  It is always exciting to check out the VIP rooms, even if you are not interested in playing, to explore what other couples enjoy doing.  Maybe watching other people is all you are in the lifestyle for, and if so, this is a great place to experience that aspect.

For those who are new to the club scene, it is an awesome, sexually energized atmosphere and a lot of fun for people looking to enjoy dancing and getting to know sexy, fun people.  For those of you who are familiar with the clubs, please leave a comment at the end of this article about your club experience.  As we always explain, you do not have to feel pressured to do anything you are not comfortable with as a couple.  You always have the right to say no.  Also remember not to be too shy to meet new people.  Swingers are very friendly and hospitable people, especially to new couples! 

Most important of all is to bring a sexy, fun party attitude. It will be a HOT night with an opportunity to meet lots of great people and have a HOT swinger night to remember.

If you have questions or suggestions, please post away!

~ Mrs. G