It’s All in the Details

Have you ever been pulled over and the (very sexy) cop asked to see some “ID” while shining a flashlight at your crotch.  Or How about this have you ever been handcuffed to five different people in one night?  We can say with BIG smiles on our faces that We Have!

No! It wasn’t the Wildcardz’ first trip to prison.  As a matter of fact each of these events happened in different countries, at different swinger’s parties.

Every party or event that we have been to has been unique in some way.  But there are a few nights that really stand out for us.  Sure we can tell you which couple we played with at almost every event we went to and how each experience was unique but that’s not what we mean when we say there was something special.

When it comes to pre-foreplay foreplay it’s the little things that drive the evening in fun and exciting ways.  Theme nights and costumes are enjoyable but it’s the people who go above and beyond that make the night FUN.  People who play the character and have fun with their costume or those that use props in a entertaining and sexy ways are the ones who stand out.

Whether it’s a French maid walking around with a feather duster cleaning everyone’s “dirty” parts or a sultry pirate searching for lost booty, she may have somehow left buried in your pants, these people have stood out to us and although we didn’t always play with them they gave us some unforgettable moments.  All because they stepped outside of the mundane and decided to have a little fun with the theme.

Also along those lines, simple party or costume accessories can really make a night exciting and get everyone interacting.  Beads at Mardi Gra can be incentive to shed the threads or being handcuffed to someone new may have you dancing with a person you otherwise may not have.   All of these ideas are great for breaking the ice and starting interaction that could lead to an even more memorable night.

So next time you’re picking out your costume or packing for a trip to your favorite resort be sure to think “How can we have fun with this?” or “Will this make our night unique?” because you never know where it might lead.

~The Wildcardz