Kissed a Girl…and liked it!

So many of our articles talk about the how to bring up the idea of swinging to a partner.  Often times, we assume that it is the male coaxing or convincing the woman of the relationship to try swinging.  There are also the occassions of couples who at some point experienced a taste of sexual energy by being around another couple or a group of people and want to expand on those erotic feelings of vouyerism.  But some couples venture into the lifestyle because the woman had previous bi-curious or bi-sexual relationships or fantasies.

Not every woman was as sheltered as I was!  Some women were comfortable enough in their sexuality to explore and experiment with bi-sexual urges earlier in life, maybe in college or high school.

For me, it took a lot of convincing from Mr. Gentlenibbles to get my mind to even think about women in a sexual way.  I think the total opposite ideas were imbedded in my mind for so long, it definitely was not something that came natural to me.  Over time and after hearing many of his fantasies, I eventually started to appreciate the beauty and sexiness of women.  I came to the realization that women can be appreciated by other women.  Women are beautiful creatures, so we should enjoy each other and not just leave that to the men!

A woman’s touch is very sensual and kissing a woman can be an erotic experience.  It may be a little awkward at first I think mainly because women are so accustomed to a guy’s rough skin and scruffy faces.  The softness of the skin is very different, but in a good way.  Women also tend to know what other women like sexually, so we have somewhat of an advantage, although we don’t have the natural “tools” to complete the job, there are ways around that!  Strap-ons and toys are helpful, or the two (or more) women enjoying each other to a certain point and then switching to be with the males involved.

Just like full swap or soft swap situations with couples, a bi-sexual encounter is not necessarily the beginning of a “relationship.”  Depending on the parties involved, it can be just like any other experience in that it is strictly play, no one looking for a relationship.  Although, sometimes couples fulfill fantasies by building and maintaining a relationship exclusively with a “unicorn.”  It is completely up to those involved how far the relationship will go, but as in all of our other articles, we insist that communication is key!

On the other side of the spectrum, there are plenty of women in the lifestyle who are not interested in girl-girl play at all.  They may either be more interested in being full swap only with other couples or single males. 

Leave us a comment about your experiences with girl-girl attractions.  Women, were you  interested in other women before entering the lifestyle, or has it been a learned attraction?  Men, did your lady surprise you with a fantasy that swept you off your feet?

~Mrs. Gentlenibbles