A Word or Two on Kissing
Kissing, while not necessarily controversial in the Lifestyle, is viewed differently by different couples. To some kissing is that special activity reserved for only their spouse. Its sensuality, intimacy, and endorphin releasing ecstasy make it an activity that some couples consider too personal to share with others.
Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I are not of this line of thought. For us kissing is almost a requirement to play for those very same reasons that some couples withhold it. In our play scenarios, orgasms, a huge high point, are not the primary goal but more like the cherries on top of the sundae.
Our enjoyment is derived from everything in between the initial hello with a polite kiss on the hand to the passionate goodbye with a long squeeze of the left butt cheek. For us the attraction to the Lifestyle lies specifically in that erotic, emotional, and passionate exchange that takes place during all of that play. There are just very few things in this world as intimate, humbling, and thrilling than to taste the lips of another between yours.
So today I offer just a little homage to kissing with these random thoughts…
My favorite and possibly the most intimate kiss. The kiss that shares one’s soul and slows the world around to a standstill. To look one’s partner straight into the eyes and slowly move forward until the bottom lips just barely connect and then holding that position for just a few moments, long enough to feel the breath of another upon your face before slowly pressing your lips together momentarily taking their bottom lip in between yours and slowly pulling away back into their stare.
I love to start by slowly kissing a beautiful woman on her cheek and along the side of her neck, using my lips to lightly grip her skin with every kiss. I take my time to pay close attention to all her facial features before slowly working my way to her lips with the sole purpose of every kiss having nothing to do with bringing her pleasure or contributing to her arousal but serving only the very selfish cause of allowing me to enjoy her taste.
When making out I am not a fan of the over exuberant sharing of one’s tongue with another for the mere purpose of doing so, but yet I love to kiss and feel a woman slowly offering her tongue not out of repetitive habit but for the purpose of sharing the intimate pieces of herself with me.
Am I the only person that truly loves to feel, smell, and taste the breath of my partner? I love when kissing slowly to enjoy the inhalation of their breath as it leaves their body. There is an intimacy in this that really intensifies the eroticism and sensuality in kissing. I also love to feel a partners breath as they kiss my body, whether it is the neck, chest, back, shoulder, or penis. Note: tic tacs, bubble gum, or some travel toothpaste may go a long way here! 
I’m thinking to myself as I’m writing this and it’s made me postulate a question to myself:
That question is, “If tomorrow I was forced to choose between giving up having sex with other women or the freedom to kiss other women what would I choose?”
As of right now I’m not sure I have an answer to this question.
Sincerely,
Mr. Gentlenibbles
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We are both Huge fans of kissing and being kissed. If we had to choose we’d give up the sex and enjoy the gentle embrace of lip on lips.
The Wildcardz
We are new to the lifestyle and will be doing our first swinging in a few weeks with nice couple from Chicago-land. Prior to even visiting with these people that we have decided to have fun with, the two of us sat down several times and discussed kissing and everything and anything that will factor in to our sexual liaison. After much discussion we both agreed that to maximize the pleasure of this experience and any ensuing meetings there will be absolutely no limitations on our sexual behavior as long as it is mutually agreed upon and in accordance with good, healthy sexual practices. Kissing, we feel is a great stimulator and to have that marked as taboo would be a huge loss. We are in our early sixties and are very excited to give this a whirl.
-Eug,
That is great! It really sounds like you two are doing it right! We would love to hear a report back on how it goes!
~Mr. G
“Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I are not of this line of thought. For us kissing is almost a requirement to play for those very same reasons that some couples withhold it”
A lot of people are of the same mind. From a personal standpoint I think that without kissing the act of sex is made to impersonal. We could never play with a couple that wouldn’t kiss us.
Absolutely Agree with you Infrerno!