Spit, Swallow, or Vomit – An Ejaculatory Discussion
While women inside of the Lifestyle are very much more into sexual pleasure than their vanilla counterparts, it has been our experience that overall that does not generally make them any more kinky. The overall make up of her sexual turn-ons is not automatically different once entering the Lifestyle.
One of the biggest examples I can think of is a woman’s proclivity towards swallowing the fruits of her male partners hanky panky. While it seems all men are of almost a unilateral mindset that the absolute disposal of all things white and gooey should involve deglutition (fancy schmancy word for swallowing), while the majority of women fall into the “spit” or “holy crap I am going to vomit” category.
The beautiful Mrs. Nibbles is a proud card carrying member of the “Get that in my mouth and I hurl” category. She was that way when we were sixteen and as innocent as puppies in a petting zoo and she is still that way today.
As a matter of fact, in the almost three years that Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I have been on this swinging roller coaster I have not been with a woman who was a member of the “swallow” mindset. So this purely perverted article today is to satisfy my curiosity of just how many women out there swallow and furthermore swallow for their own satisfaction and enjoyment?
Vote in the poll below and leave us a coment below to let us know your thoughts on this most distinguished of matters.
Loading ...In an effort to make this sound like a useful teaching article I will end with this statement.
So for all you newbies out there, please do not assume that just because a woman is open in her sexuality that she will spontaneously begin enjoying the things you fantasize about. Be courteous to the ladies in our Lifestyle, without them this whole thing is just weird!
May someone grab your ass today!
~The Nibblers!
Hi Mr. G,
This is a well written article (as always).
It might also be interesting to see what guys experience in the lifestyle has been to help put this in perspective. You mention that in your 3 years no woman has ever swallowed. Maybe a poll for us guys? Or perhaps a different posting topic?
Including my lovely wife, I have enjoyed this experience from 3 lovely ladies. On all occasions it was because the women wanted it (okay, to be honest they knew it turned me on) but my point is I did not ask for it. They told me to come in their mouths.
Disclaimer: I appreciate a good blow job and have no problem cumming wherever I am privileged to put it.
John
Mrs Cardz has always been a swallower. Before we joined the lifestyle I was the only guy she had ever been with to that degree. Whenever we discuss the topic she states “What alse am I supposed to do with it?” Never really thinking spitting was an option she’s always been a swallower even when we were young and innocent (as you put it).
Me personally, I love to get blow jobs either way. It doesn’t matter to me where the end result may fall. (Though I do tend to aim for the breasts)
Another fine article
Mr Cardz
John,
Thanks for the feedback… You luck bastard (lol)
Your Disclaimer says it all. I have never had my feelings hurt from spitting….or vomiting for that matter.
Like you, I have never asked for or even mentioned it. I figure if a woman wants to do that, she will let me know.
Mr. Cardz,
God Bless Mrs. Cardz…. I did not think it was possible but she somehow just got hotter!
Mr. G
Oh and John,
You are right, we do need that Poll. Good idea for a future topic and poll.
Ms. PERVs has professed to me that she enjoys receiving the fruits of my member. However, will not take it from everyone.
Mr. PERV seems to be lucky enough to not run into any non-swallowers that have taken the task on to completion.
How serendipitous – I was just thinking about this very topic.
I swallow Mr. OhMyStars. I haven’t swallowed for anyone else. (yet, I have learned to never say never LOL) but I’m a very polite, descrete spitter. In my humble opinion if I immediately turn my head and hack up a big one, that might ruin the mood of what I was trying to accomplish in the first place. Or if there’s somewhere in particular he likes to put it (breasts, face, dart board, goal posts) go for it.
Cheers!
I’m with Mrs. Nibbles on this one!
I have tried and tried, and I continue to try with Mr. Discreet. I think splooge and my mouth are like those magnets that just won’t come together. LOL!
Either I spit or just let it fall where it may.
I’m not grossed out by the idea (in fact I wish I could), but for some reason hot liquid gel like substances shooting down my throat can make me gag faster than you can blink (or cum)!
Mr. D has had one lady swallow, and he says it really doesn’t matter to him, as long as his member is getting some attention. The end result is no big thing.
On a side note, I do enjoy watching a man cum, so pulling it out of my mouth and letting my hand give the last few strokes is very nice to watch!
~ Mrs. Discreet
I think for a lot of women, spitting or swallowing has a lot to do with who their partner is, and SAFETY. The lifestyle is supposed to “thrive” on safety, and yet so many people see oral sex as not having any safety issues – when it so clearly does.
Yes, getting “it” in your mouth is generally not practiced by couples that demand “safely”….just a thought…..
I know nobody wants to talk about the risks of oral sex in the lifestyle or just in general, but until you know someone who has contracted chlamydia in their throat, you might not think about it…
Discreet,
The fact you enjoy watching is hot in and of itself!
Cheri,
You bring up a good and valid point. Do you use dental dams and condoms for oral sex?
~thenibblers
I have been known to swallow, indeed, but my preference is really a facial. I have tended to be quite turned on by a man coming all over my face…actually, it’s one of my favorite sexual things! (I am a big fan of giving blow jobs in general.) I don’t mind at all if any gets in my mouth.
As far as swallowing, I don’t think I’ve ever done it because I myself actually felt turned on by it. Usually it has been to avoid making a mess, which has seemed called for with quickie or public blow jobs, for example.
Lol–this conversation seems to have turned me on!
For me, it really depends on my mood. There are times when I will swallow and there are other time when I spit. I’m not against it being in my mouth, but there are times when there is a texture issue for me. I must say, if there has been some pineapple eating before hand, I am probably a bit more likely to swallow. It really changes the taste.
And I have to say, I am in complete agreement with Mrs. Discreet on the watching thing. It is hot, and I love to watch a guy cum. There have been times when I have made Deviant pull out just so I can see him cum.
~BB
Interersting question and I thought it had been universally answered: Swallow. At least in my somewhat limited experience. Silly me.
We are fairly vanilla-ish with only teasing going on so far, though my wife still has the fantasy of herself as the center of an MFM event … or maybe even 3Ms … anyway, as to the question, I’ve been with about a dozen women and all have swallowed without the issue even cumming up [pun intended].
My wife reports she’s been with 5 guys and when the occasion arose she swallowed every time, which included her first husband who was a very heavy cummer I am told and so she did the best she could with the overflow finding its way wherever it might.
She reports she likes the control she has over the event which is just fine by me. She also says it’s only fair because I swallow her juices which admittedly are not the same thing…but fair is fair
Notably, last football season we were watching our home team get trounced and so she decided to throw down a gauntlet: How many times could she get me up and get me off orally. I was up for the challenge and can report 5 scores with diminishing results each time, but hey the feeling was still wonderful.
Hey Mr. G…just ran across this article… all I can say is I am one of the lucky few guys I guess. Let’s just say this is a specialty of Mrs Bishop…and she doesn’t discriminate…
P.S. I love my life
That and she is sexy as hell too…..
D*mn lucky man!
For all of you vomit folks, here’s what you do. Have your guy drink a whole can of Dole pineapple juice about 6 hours out. Whewn he cums, it will be the seetest drink you’ll ever have. Trust me. My girlfiend and I are addicted to the stuff. For thickening, use Lecithin. Not only does it thicken, but it also increases volume. FYI
My wife enjoys swollowing, (of course I wont tongue kiss her for a few days afterwards LOL). But it is one of the most ertotic experiences watching her, especially with one particular friend of hers. I get so excited watching how much they both enjoy the experience. Afterwards, when my wife and I have sex ourselves, I tell her how excited I was watching her giving her friend a b/j, and swollowing his load. Sometimes I would ask her if she swollowd a lot, and with this particular guy, she once told me that he just kept on cumming in her mouth, and she felt she must have had swollowed “a quart of cock milk”, as she calls it.
I think that if a man licks a ladies clit and eats her pussy that they should swallow his cum. I enjoy eating a ladies pussy and licking her clean. So whats the difference if she swallows his cum. Most men dont know how to trip a lady anyway. The have no Idea that a lady has two clits. One inside and one outside.Get back to me ifyou like. I would love to find a beautiful lady that goes both ways and would love to run with me.
I do swallow from time to time…I really enjoy it now but I haven’t always been comfortable with swallowing with other men, besides my husband.
I think one reason I did not do it the first few years we were swinging was for safety and another hesitation was I did not want to if I didn’t know how the woman felt about it.
I have since read extensive research on the safety and found that swallowing is actually safer than keeping it in your mouth or spitting-the risk of std from bj is already there if you are giving a bj without condom whether the guy cums or not. I weighed the safety factor for myself and if I feel safe enough to give a guy a bj in the first place, I don’t feel swallowing puts me in a greater risk.
As far as my other hesitation, not wanting to do it unless I knew that the other woman was ok with it, is still something I consider strongly beforehand. I have found that there are some women that do not swallow that have no problem with another woman swallowing and there are some that do not swallow that feel uncomfortable and don’t want another woman swallowing with their man. With experience, I feel it’s much easier for me now to casually find out this information and not offend anyone. Luckily, most couples communicate well and have previously discussed this with their partner and it is actually the man that will pull back and not cum in my mouth if it is something that makes them uncomfortable as a couple. Other times it’s just me knowing the cpl or female and having had the conversation previously. If I don’t know for sure in the heat of the moment and the women isn’t close enough to whisper in her ear and ask..I will not swallow.
Although I swallow and enjoy it very much, it does not mean I swallow every time- I like variety ..sometimes I’m really in the mood to see it shooting all over my tits etc. I also get turned on if the guy is respectful and asks/gives a warning “I’m about to cum” and does not assume that since I have swallowed in the past that I’m going to want to every time.
Cheers,
Allie
p.s. Just had to add..The post ahead of mine is not from my husband, John. ; )
Allie,
As always, aswesome input! Really like the discussion about swallowing for safety. Very interesting. Any reference on that? It would make a great article.
Mr. G