Going out on a Limb - Swinger Says What?

A very common topic we receive questions about here at Gentle Nibbles refers to the viability of mixing Lifestyle activities with good friends from the outside “vanilla” world. 

Today’s “Swingers Says What” question takes that a step further by asking advice on the prospects of two completely vanilla couples who are great friends and completely entrenched in each others lives that decide to take the plunge into swinging waters together.

Believe it or not, I would guess that a significant percentage of Lifestylers began this way.  Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I had our first experiences with another vanilla couple.  At the time we had no idea where things were going or thought about how risky it was, we just knew we were having the time of our life!  The other couple never crossed over into the Lifestyle and don’t know that we did, but our fun times with them were definitely the catalyst that landed us smiling dead center in the middle of Swingtown!

OK, on to the letter we received: Read more

Halloween with DesirousParty at the Ritz in Houston

Well the incredibly sexy Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I have determined where we are going to spend this year’s Halloween, the biggest of all swinging holidays!  We, along with well over five hundred other sexy swingers will be taking over The Ritz gentleman’s club followed by a hotel takeover in the South Houston area on October 25th!

Halloween is such a sexy holiday, that always brings out large crowds and induces great times.  I have to tell you, you have not seen a party until you have a seen a great hotel takeover!  Hundreds of sexy couples walking around in lingerie and sexy pajamas going door to door meeting new couples and having a great time!  We have been to two hotel takeovers in our swinging career and both experiences rank really high on our list of favorites! Read more

Standing Tall - Battling an Uncooperative Penis

Last week we discussed the phenomenon many new male swingers face when first entering the lifestyle of obtaining and maintaining an erection during play. 

If you did not get a chance to read that post, click here to quickly read it before going on with today’s article.  The main discussion of that post was that even though most men do not admit to struggling with “performance anxiety”, it is a relatively common occurence especially among new swinger couples.

Fortunately, it is almost always a temporary problem often disappearing after couples gain a little more experience and becomes more comfortable in play situations.  This however does not make the experience any less troubling for the man involved, thus today we are going to discuss some things you can do to help make your soldier stand at attention when he is most needed! Read more

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