Swingers and the Water Cooler

Where I work, we have very tight knit group and we often have very open discussions and our jokes almost always have sexual undertones.  We all laugh and usually forget that there are other people in the office who might not appreciate our humor!  I am sure the bosses overhear, but just ignore us!  I am really surprised we have not been called to HR, but I guess if no one is complaining, we are OK!  Water cooler talk is what I call it!

My views of the topics of water cooler talk have changed drastically since entering the lifestyle, although it probably does not have as much to do with the lifestyle as it does just broadening my sexual experiences in general.  As Mr. G explained on our About Us page, I was raised in a very religious environment with all sisters, so sex has been a learning experience for me for most of my married life.  Read more

Selecting a Sextastic Swinger Themed Costume for Halloween

Well, it’s that time of year again! One of our favorite times of year as swingers, and not just because of the cooler weather, jack-o-lanterns and earlier sunsets. . . if you haven’t figured it out by now, we in the lifestyle love to dress up! We don’t necessarily wait for Halloween to come around to express our creativity in our attire! Although, not always the scary, spooky goblins, theme parties are a huge part of the lifestyle.

There are tons of Web sites with club wear and Halloween costumes! Even if you don’t order from them, they can help inspire ideas. A great site for costumes is www.odgirl.com. If you’ve bought a certain brand of lingerie that you know fits, it may be wise to go with that same brand for ordering costumes online, only because their sizing is probably similar. Some online stores may not allow you to return clothing if it does not fit, so be sure to check into that. Also, keep in mind shipping times. Read more

Home Sweet . . .Hotel

It is Saturday about 5pm.  You begin shaving, waxing and the other regiments that have become your normal routine preparing for that one night out for the month. 

You’ve carefully selected the perfect theme outfit for the party at the club.  Spray on that magical scent and you are out the door, but wait. . .do you make sure the house is tidy before you leave, just in case you and your spouse strike up some chemistry with another couple, or do you plan to get a hotel room for the “after party”? 

There are definitely many factors to consider when deciding home or hotel: Cost. Are the kids home?  Is the house clean?  Do you have entertainment at the house, although not required - swimming pool, hot tub, pool table or Rock Band?  Drive times (this can kill the mood quickly).  Read more

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