Observe. Report. Act.

Recent conversations with other couples in the lifestyle have entrigued us with a new concept. . . Observe, Report, Act. Many couples may be curious or interested about the lifestyle, but just like all of us, do not know what to expect. Of course, our blog is meant to provide as much information as possible [...]

New Year’s Party with a Twist – Couples Gone Wild!

 Thanksgiving is only a couple of weeks away and before you know it, Santa will have made his dashing trip around the world delivering gifts to children young and old. The gifts that took hours, days and weeks to purchase and wrap will be unwrapped, and it will be time to take down the Christmas [...]

Swinger Says What? We’ve felt so silly!

We are receiving lots of “Swinger Says What” inquiries, and we are answering them as quickly as possible!  If you’ve submitted one, keep checking, we promise we will get to you!  Here is the question for this week:
We are new to this and have been with two couples so far. Both times we have ended up [...]

Swinger Says What? What are my chances?

Hello again everyone!  Hope everyone is enjoying the redesign of the site.  If you like it, be sure and leave Mr. Gentlenibbles a comment.  He worked very hard on it, although I have to say he is getting way to good at it!  Like many other things he is really good at, practice has made him near perfect. [...]

Swinger Says What – Is it normal to think that way?

Today, we are answering a question by a reader who is considering entering the lifestyle with her fiance’, but is having some reservations about seeing her man with another woman.  Here is the e-mail:
My fiance and I have been togther 1yr 7mo.  He’s mentioned swinging, and now for the first time in my
life, I’m thinking [...]

Kissed a Girl…and liked it!

So many of our articles talk about the how to bring up the idea of swinging to a partner.  Often times, we assume that it is the male coaxing or convincing the woman of the relationship to try swinging.  There are also the occassions of couples who at some point experienced a taste of sexual [...]

Not Just KY Anymore

Strawberry, natural, organic, cinnamon, tingling, warming . . . . these are just a few of the many flavors and types of personal lubricants on the market today.  Some are silicone based, some water based.  Some are for her, and some for him.  
Even if you or your spouse do not need help with lubrication, the tingling or warming sensation or [...]

Opening Up the Back Door to your Partner

Anal sex has always been off limits in my book . . . until recently! And by recently, I mean within the last year or so.

HOT Party Preparation

In preparation for the “HOT HOT HOT vs. HOT HOUSTON” party to take place next month, I thought I would take the opportunity to start a discussion for those who have not attended a lifestyle club to provide some insight and allow everyone to give their take on lifestyle clubs. 
The first thing to start thinking [...]

Toys, Toys, Everywhere Toys!

Since being in the lifestyle, how has your sex toy or sexy clothing collection changed?  Would your family/friends be shocked at what they found?  
I did not even own a sex toy until my husband bought me my first one just a few years ago.  I was totally humiliated when he brought it home, but after [...]

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