Swingers Says What? – The Separate Room Dilemma
This week our sexy friends “The Wildcardz” are answering a question we have received from one of our readers. The question is: My boyfriend and I are thinking about trying the swinger lifestyle. I think that I can do this but there is this other thing that he wants as well and I’m not sure [...]
It’s All in the Details
Have you ever been pulled over and the (very sexy) cop asked to see some “ID” while shining a flashlight at your crotch. Or How about this have you ever been handcuffed to five different people in one night? We can say with BIG smiles on our faces that We Have! No! It wasn’t the [...]
Sorry Agent Your Cover Has Been Blown
Let me lay the scene for you. You’re headed to a local swinger’s party. You’ve prepped all week. Buying costumes, finding a sitter, booking your hotel room, and trimming all unnecessary body hair. You don your trench coats and head to the party. At the front desk you say your name to the hostess and [...]
How to Butcher a Relationship
(photo courtesy of PETA – It just really seemed appropriate for an article on a swingers site entitled “How to Butcher a Releationship”) (This is the latest post from our sexy friends “The Wildcardz“) Here in the twenty first century we humans have become accustomed to many of the amenities that technology has afforded us. [...]
Friction is Hot! – Philly Friction Swinger Party Review
(by The Wildcardz) Who says Friction is a bad thing? Certainly not us. This past weekend we attended our first local swinger’s event. We had been to Desire and even had a few private parties but this was our first trip to a swinger’s party/club. And Wow what a way to start. While in Desire [...]
How Could We Forget How?
When it comes to swingers, How? is a question that can be perceived in at least 3 ways. “How do I convince my partner to try swinging?” or “How do we get the play started?” or “How is she able to put her feet there while were hands are over here and her mouth is [...]
A Few Simple Questions – Ask Yourselves the Five W’s
If you are new to swinging and looking for information the most common advice you will get from seasoned veterans as well as other newbies is talk, talk, talk. On occasion the advisor will give you a suggestion of one or two topics to discuss with your partner. However in our experience no two couples [...]





