Calling All Newbies – A New Swingers Meet and Greet

A couple of weeks ago we announced the “Houston Invasion Party” with couples from all over Texas invading Houston on April 25th, 2009 for one night making it one of the largest swinging events in the state this year!!!
The party is definitely not going to disappoint with close to 200 couples RSVP’d on various swinger [...]

Sorry Agent Your Cover Has Been Blown

Let me lay the scene for you.  You’re headed to a local swinger’s party.  You’ve prepped all week. Buying costumes, finding a sitter, booking your hotel room, and trimming all unnecessary body hair.  You don your trench coats and head to the party.  At the front desk you say your name to the hostess and [...]

Monogamous House Party

Okay, so monogamy and monogamous are not words you hear too often on a swinger website but listen to me here as we have been toying with an idea that was kicked around on a couple of comments on the site. It really is not a bad idea and maybe even a quite good one.
You see, one of [...]

From Fantasy to Sextastic Swinger Reality – Swinger Says What?

One of the most common questions we receive in our Ask a Swinger mailbox is “How do I convince my wife to swing” or some query very similar.  As a matter of fact, we have received three letters on that specific topic just in the last couple of weeks.  On the surface if that question is all [...]

Going Out On a Limb (Part Two) – Swinger Says What?

A few weeks ago we answered a letter from a young couple who has been treading into the swinging waters with some very good friends.  We had asked the couple to let us know how things progress and they dropped us a note last week to do just that.  So we wanted to share it [...]

Swinger Etiquette – Swinger Says What?

Today’s post is a great one dealing with one of the number one concerns and struggles new swingers face when first dipping their toes in the Lifestyle waters.  A couple new to swinging wrote us with the following question regarding how to dish up a polite rejection.
My wife and are are definitely newbies with some [...]

Going out on a Limb – Swinger Says What?

A very common topic we receive questions about here at Gentle Nibbles refers to the viability of mixing Lifestyle activities with good friends from the outside “vanilla” world. 
Today’s “Swingers Says What” question takes that a step further by asking advice on the prospects of two completely vanilla couples who are great friends and completely entrenched in each [...]

How Could We Forget How?

When it comes to swingers, How? is a question that can be perceived in at least 3 ways.  “How do I convince my partner to try swinging?” or “How do we get the play started?” or “How is she able to put her feet there while were hands are over here and her mouth is [...]

What if I Can’t Get and Erection? – Swinger Says What?

If I was to open my Encyclopedia Britannica and open it to the swinger’s section, I would find that one of the most asked questions by new swingers goes something like this,
“What do I do if I have trouble getting a hard on?  Is this common? What kind of reaction should I expect?”
We get emails regarding this topic quite [...]

Selecting a Sextastic Swinger Themed Costume for Halloween

Well, it’s that time of year again! One of our favorite times of year as swingers, and not just because of the cooler weather, jack-o-lanterns and earlier sunsets. . . if you haven’t figured it out by now, we in the lifestyle love to dress up! We don’t necessarily wait for Halloween to come around [...]

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