Swinger Etiquette – Swinger Says What?
Today’s post is a great one dealing with one of the number one concerns and struggles new swingers face when first dipping their toes in the Lifestyle waters. A couple new to swinging wrote us with the following question regarding how to dish up a polite rejection. My wife and are are definitely newbies with [...]
Going out on a Limb – Swinger Says What?
A very common topic we receive questions about here at Gentle Nibbles refers to the viability of mixing Lifestyle activities with good friends from the outside “vanilla” world. Today’s “Swingers Says What” question takes that a step further by asking advice on the prospects of two completely vanilla couples who are great friends and completely entrenched in [...]
How Could We Forget How?
When it comes to swingers, How? is a question that can be perceived in at least 3 ways. “How do I convince my partner to try swinging?” or “How do we get the play started?” or “How is she able to put her feet there while were hands are over here and her mouth is [...]
What if I Can’t Get an Erection? – Swinger Says What?
If I was to open my Encyclopedia Britannica and open it to the swinger’s section, I would find that one of the most asked questions by new swingers goes something like this, “What do I do if I have trouble getting a hard on? Is this common? What kind of reaction should I expect?” We get emails regarding [...]
Selecting a Sextastic Swinger Themed Costume for Halloween
Well, it’s that time of year again! One of our favorite times of year as swingers, and not just because of the cooler weather, jack-o-lanterns and earlier sunsets. . . if you haven’t figured it out by now, we in the lifestyle love to dress up! We don’t necessarily wait for Halloween to come around [...]
A Few Simple Questions – Ask Yourselves the Five W’s
If you are new to swinging and looking for information the most common advice you will get from seasoned veterans as well as other newbies is talk, talk, talk. On occasion the advisor will give you a suggestion of one or two topics to discuss with your partner. However in our experience no two couples [...]
Willy Wonka’s Advice for Swingers
As a child I remember reading Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Ronald Dahl. The book that inspired the two movies starring Gene Wilder, and now Johnny Depp. Even as a young child, I recall being able to plainly grasp one of the underlying central themes of the novel. That theme being, “Too much of a [...]
What if We Are Not That Sexy? – Swinger Says What?
This “Swinger Says What?” post comes to us from an Arizona couple and their question is regarding looks and the Lifestyle. They sent us this email a couple of weeks ago. Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles, Let us begin by saying “THANKS”. As very new swingers, your website has been helpful to us in providing answers [...]
Personality – The Swinging “It” Factor
The science of sexual attraction is a complex beast well above my comprehension, but I do know this. Sexual attraction inside the Lifestyle and outside the Lifestyle is very different. Sexual compatability is the name of the game in the Lifestyle. Ranking far above abs, great legs, big tits, perfect lips, and an ass you can [...]
Eat, Sex, Sleep and Repeat
Hotel Reservations – check Airline Reservations – check Sexy clothes in the suitcase – check Swingfest Tickets – check Sleep Deprivation – Leave it at home!!! In preparation of Swingfest, Mr. G and I wanted to share some advice that we learned this past weekend! We attended BBB last weekend in Austin, as you already [...]
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