Observe. Report. Act.
Recent conversations with other couples in the lifestyle have entrigued us with a new concept. . . Observe, Report, Act. Many couples may be curious or interested about the lifestyle, but just like all of us, do not know what to expect. Of course, our blog is meant to provide as much information as possible [...]
Swinger Says What – Men Need Advice Too!
Today we welcome back one of the most popular series on gentlenibbles.com. It is the return of “swinger says what” that swingilicious segment in which readers submit their questions regarding swinging to be answered here on gentlenibbles.com.
Today’s question is a great one. It comes from the female half of a sexy newbie couple in an [...]
From Fantasy to Sextastic Swinger Reality – Swinger Says What?
One of the most common questions we receive in our Ask a Swinger mailbox is “How do I convince my wife to swing” or some query very similar. As a matter of fact, we have received three letters on that specific topic just in the last couple of weeks. On the surface if that question is all [...]
Swinger Etiquette – Swinger Says What?
Today’s post is a great one dealing with one of the number one concerns and struggles new swingers face when first dipping their toes in the Lifestyle waters. A couple new to swinging wrote us with the following question regarding how to dish up a polite rejection.
My wife and are are definitely newbies with some [...]
Going out on a Limb – Swinger Says What?
A very common topic we receive questions about here at Gentle Nibbles refers to the viability of mixing Lifestyle activities with good friends from the outside “vanilla” world.
Today’s “Swingers Says What” question takes that a step further by asking advice on the prospects of two completely vanilla couples who are great friends and completely entrenched in each [...]
New Swingers, Parking Lots, and Butterflies
It has often been said that for new swingers, the toughest part of the journey is getting themselves from the parking lot to the front door of a swingers club. There have been many a couple who made it to the parking lot of the club with every intention of starting their Lifestyle journey, only [...]
New Swingers Guide: Part Three
(This post is a follow up post to New Swingers Guide: Part Two)
Do you smell that? It is the smell of something exciting in the air. You have done plenty of research, an incredible amount of talking between you and your spouse, and you have even been flirting and learning about the lifestyle in your [...]
Swinger Dictionary
Since this week postings have really been focusing on New Swingers and their introduction to the lifestyle, I thought it would be a good idea to introduce some of the terminology used in the community. Some of the vocabulary may be graphic and a little shocking. I can assure you, anything that sounds weird or [...]
New Swingers Guide: Part Two
(This post is a follow up post to New Swingers Guide: Part One)
So you have done your research, been all over the Internet, and hopefully at least brushed your teeth. You are ready to get out in this erotic new world and meet some other lifestylers. Thats great! Where do we go from here?
In order [...]
New Swingers Guide: Part One
So you and your spouse have mentioned the big “S’” word to each other and are ready to take a first step. The “S” word I refer to is swinging for those of you who may have had a few margaritas before sitting down at the computer tonight. So what is that first step? Before [...]







