The Shy One - A Swinger Encounter

It was very early on in our swinging journey and on one of our very first ”dates” that we met this couple.  We had only exchanged an email a couple of hours before and agreed to meet at a restaurant midway between their place and ours.

In the email the husband (Seth) had warned us that his wife (Sierra) was shy and took awhile to open up.  He assured us that she was very excited to meet us, but would probably take a little while to show it.  To be honest, it scared us a little bit, as it sounded almost like maybe she was being dragged along and he was just covering for her expected reaction.  However seeing that they had multiple validations from other swingers on the Web site, we chose to take our chances and meet them for dinner and drinks. Read more

Party of Four, Your Table is Ready

Today we are extremely excited to bring a great post from a very special guest author on Gentle Nibbles.  John from Swingercast has given some great advice for our readers.  For those of you that listen to Swingercast, you are used to hearing John’s great and extremely witty advice.  We hope you enjoy the post as much as we do.  Be sure and leave some comments for John at the bottom so we can get him to do this again!!!

Party of Four, Your Table is Ready

So you’ve chatted with them online, exchanged photos and maybe had a few phone conversations.  It has taken weeks or maybe months to arrange dinner but the night has finally arrived.  (If you just read that last sentence and thought to yourself, “weeks? months?  Hell, I can arrange a dinner date in 10 minutes!” Please continue reading but send this author your phone number, we should do lunch.

Once you are all seated pay special attention to how your two hotties treat the wait staff.  I think it goes without saying that a couple that has agreed to meet you will probably (hopefully?) bend over backwards to impress you.  But there is always that one guy or girl, who no matter how hard the wait staff tries, will never be happy.  If the waiter can’t please them at the dinner table, you might have the same trouble in bed.

The Asshole

No, not the one you “reserve for special playmates”. I’m talking about the Read more