New Swingers, Parking Lots, and Butterflies

It has often been said that for new swingers, the toughest part of the journey is getting themselves from the parking lot to the front door of a swingers club. There have been many a couple who made it to the parking lot of the club with every intention of starting their Lifestyle journey, only to eventually talk themselves out of it and drive home disappointed.

The reason this can be such a tough spot for new swingers is because this act is often the pinpoint for when a couple goes from “Vanilla” to “Swinger”. This situation is also often associated with doubts, confusion, and a healthy dose of fear of the unknown at what lays on the other side of that pretty “green” door. I would venture to guess for every ten Lifestyler’s in the world, there is at least one or two couples that never made it past the parking lot. Read more

That is One Small Step for Woman, and One Large Step for Swinger-kind

How does a young couple born and raised in the Bible Belt end up in the lifestyle?  What is the highly unlikely path choices one makes to find themselves here?  For us, and for many others out there, we had little to do with the decision.  The lifestyle found us.  We can honestly say that neither of us ever had thoughts about becoming swingers. Those who have known us all our lives, may very well have voted us most likely couple to never be Swingers.  It all started simple enough.  We had no idea that events were setting in motion that would take us on thus far the greatest adventure of our lives.

Believe it or not, a party for Squeak’s work is where our story starts.  We had just moved to Houston a few months prior, and Squeak had started a new job.  She really enjoyed her job and the people she worked with.  Her boss, a female, and Squeak really seemed to click from the beginning and very fast became great friends.  Fast forward a couple of months to the work party spoken of above, where we are relaxed and having a great time with our relatively new friends.

The party was a pool party, everyone had brought their kids who had spent most of the afternoon swimming while all the parents were just enjoying the conversation.  Then as evening fell, all the kids Read more