The Rules of Swinging – Swinger Says What?

Recently a young couple wrote to us asking for some help understanding the rules and categories of swinging.  In reality it is not that complicated and every couple kind of does their own thing. The unfortunate circumstance for newbies is when you are just starting out in the world of swinging, the worry about offending [...]

Top Ten Do’s and Don’ts for New Swingers

In the style of Letterman, with the coolness of Brad Pitt, the smoothness of Harry Connick Jr., and the spirit of Hugh Hefner we bring you the “Top Ten Do’s and Don’ts of New Swingers” So without further delay… 1.) Do talk about all things “Swinging” long and hard! If you have noticed anything from reading [...]

Do Soft Swappers Have More Fun?

(Let me preface this sure to be controversial, but hopefully thought provoking post with the statement that Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I are “full swap” as labels go and have no plans of removing this from our “swinger” playbook anytime soon.  That being said, we actively enjoy times with both full swap and soft swap couples……  Now read [...]

Full Swap versus Soft Swap

A famous writer once penned these famous words that would survive the test of history, “To penetrate or not to penetrate, that is the question.” …or something like that. There is a really good chance that within the first seventeen and one third minutes of entering the lifestyle you encountered the question. Are we “full [...]