Monogamous House Party

Okay, so monogamy and monogamous are not words you hear too often on a swinger website but listen to me here as we have been toying with an idea that was kicked around on a couple of comments on the site. It really is not a bad idea and maybe even a quite good one.

You see, one of the largest concerns new couples to the lifestyle face is how they will react in sexual situations. Many of these couples jump straight from never ever seeing another couple naked to swapping and doing the full monty!  That is a pretty big stretch to make in the course of just one evening. A large amount of couples who will eventually become full swap or soft swap would have enjoyed the opportunity to just participate in having sex in the same room with another couple if the opportunity had allowed. But as many of you know, finding other couples who are not interested in swapping is pretty tough to do on a couple to couple basis. Read more

Home Sweet . . .Hotel

It is Saturday about 5pm.  You begin shaving, waxing and the other regiments that have become your normal routine preparing for that one night out for the month. 

You’ve carefully selected the perfect theme outfit for the party at the club.  Spray on that magical scent and you are out the door, but wait. . .do you make sure the house is tidy before you leave, just in case you and your spouse strike up some chemistry with another couple, or do you plan to get a hotel room for the “after party”? 

There are definitely many factors to consider when deciding home or hotel: Cost. Are the kids home?  Is the house clean?  Do you have entertainment at the house, although not required - swimming pool, hot tub, pool table or Rock Band?  Drive times (this can kill the mood quickly).  Read more