Ode to Differences - A Swingers Call to Unity

(Warning - Extremely facetious writing ahead)

The World is a big and beautiful place and it is full of all types of people who believe and practice all types of things.  This article is a very special article calling for swingers all across the country to take a moment, join hands, and decide this world is big enough for all of us.  

 Compassion is paramount, even if the lifestyle of which we speak is the immoral Vanilla Lifestyle!  Yes, even if some people practice a lifestyle so shocking, inordinate, and obviously against nature’s plan, we should rise above our own opinions of such backwards behavior and accept these beautiful yet misguided people as our brothers and sisters on this planet. 

Let’s share our grocery stores, corner markets, and dare I say even our adult novelty stores, though we know their unenlightened minds will be unable to properly cope with what they may find. Read more

Going out on a Limb - Swinger Says What?

A very common topic we receive questions about here at Gentle Nibbles refers to the viability of mixing Lifestyle activities with good friends from the outside “vanilla” world. 

Today’s “Swingers Says What” question takes that a step further by asking advice on the prospects of two completely vanilla couples who are great friends and completely entrenched in each others lives that decide to take the plunge into swinging waters together.

Believe it or not, I would guess that a significant percentage of Lifestylers began this way.  Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I had our first experiences with another vanilla couple.  At the time we had no idea where things were going or thought about how risky it was, we just knew we were having the time of our life!  The other couple never crossed over into the Lifestyle and don’t know that we did, but our fun times with them were definitely the catalyst that landed us smiling dead center in the middle of Swingtown!

OK, on to the letter we received: Read more

How Could We Forget How?

When it comes to swingers, How? is a question that can be perceived in at least 3 ways.  “How do I convince my partner to try swinging?” or “How do we get the play started?” or “How is she able to put her feet there while were hands are over here and her mouth is doing that?”

The first is the question we’re going to focus on.  The second is a question that most swingbloggers or swingcasters have tackled at least once so for the time being you’ll have to check them out to answer that question.  As for the third all we can say is “We don’t know how or why but it’s a lot of fun to watch…. Read more

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