How Could We Forget How?

When it comes to swingers, How? is a question that can be perceived in at least 3 ways.  “How do I convince my partner to try swinging?” or “How do we get the play started?” or “How is she able to put her feet there while were hands are over here and her mouth is doing that?”

The first is the question we’re going to focus on.  The second is a question that most swingbloggers or swingcasters have tackled at least once so for the time being you’ll have to check them out to answer that question.  As for the third all we can say is “We don’t know how or why but it’s a lot of fun to watch…. Read more

Congrats!!!….And a Heads Up!

We wanted to say congratulations to the winner of the $100 Red Passion gift certificate giveaway.  The winner was drawn yesterday and being is notified by email today!  We appreciate all the many people that signed up for the contest and the Gentle Nibbles updates.

If you did not win, do not worry as a new contest is just around the corner!!!  Click HERE to be notified of future contests!

We also wanted to make sure and clarify how to get the Gentle Nibbles discounted rate on the upcoming cruise sponsored by Shoes Only Travel.  This discount is a much greater discount then you will see on the site, and you will need to enter Gentle Nibbles in the “promo” code box to receive this extra discount!  Read more

What if We Are Not That Sexy? - Swinger Says What?

This “Swinger Says What?” post comes to us from an Arizona couple and their question is regarding looks and the Lifestyle.  They sent us this email a couple of weeks ago.

Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles,

Let us begin by saying “THANKS”. As very new swingers, your website has been helpful to us in providing answers to many questions.  

We are writing this letter to ask you a question for one of your “Swinger Say’s What?” posts.  Your thoughts and opinions on this would be appreciated.

Our question is this, “What is it like for average or even less than average looking couples when trying to find a couple to play with?”  We don’t consider ourselves ugly, but when looking at some of the profiles on SDC we realize we are not as attractive as many of the couples.

We are pretty comfortable with our bodies and appearance, but that does not mean we will enjoy being rejected over and over.  Are we wasting our time, or worse setting ourselves up for disappointment?

Thanks,

BJ and Marie
Arizona

Read more

Next Page »