Observe. Report. Act.
Recent conversations with other couples in the lifestyle have entrigued us with a new concept. . . Observe, Report, Act. Many couples may be curious or interested about the lifestyle, but just like all of us, do not know what to expect. Of course, our blog is meant to provide as much information as possible [...]
Ode to Differences – A Swingers Call to Unity
(Warning – Extremely facetious writing ahead)
The World is a big and beautiful place and it is full of all types of people who believe and practice all types of things. This article is a very special article calling for swingers all across the country to take a moment, join hands, and decide this world is [...]
Going out on a Limb – Swinger Says What?
A very common topic we receive questions about here at Gentle Nibbles refers to the viability of mixing Lifestyle activities with good friends from the outside “vanilla” world.
Today’s “Swingers Says What” question takes that a step further by asking advice on the prospects of two completely vanilla couples who are great friends and completely entrenched in each [...]
How Could We Forget How?
When it comes to swingers, How? is a question that can be perceived in at least 3 ways. “How do I convince my partner to try swinging?” or “How do we get the play started?” or “How is she able to put her feet there while were hands are over here and her mouth is [...]
Congrats!!!….And a Heads Up!
We wanted to say congratulations to the winner of the $100 Red Passion gift certificate giveaway. The winner was drawn yesterday and being is notified by email today! We appreciate all the many people that signed up for the contest and the Gentle Nibbles updates.
If you did not win, do not worry as a new [...]
What if We Are Not That Sexy? – Swinger Says What?
This “Swinger Says What?” post comes to us from an Arizona couple and their question is regarding looks and the Lifestyle. They sent us this email a couple of weeks ago.
Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles,
Let us begin by saying “THANKS”. As very new swingers, your website has been helpful to us in providing answers to many [...]
New Swingers, Parking Lots, and Butterflies
It has often been said that for new swingers, the toughest part of the journey is getting themselves from the parking lot to the front door of a swingers club. There have been many a couple who made it to the parking lot of the club with every intention of starting their Lifestyle journey, only [...]
Nothing Gets Better at Two In the Morning
Today’s post is a little bit of a rant, complaint, or at the very least a sanity check. Mrs Gentlenibbles and I are just confused on why so many members of the Lifestyle don’t get down to, in the words of Borat, “sexy time” before two in the morning or later when going to the club.
Since we [...]
Drama: The Art of Making Sexy Time Not So Sexy!
In the Lifestyle, unlike the vanilla world the big “D” word is not Divorce, but rather Drama! Drama is defined by Merriam Webster as:
a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict of forces
There is nothing worse than witnessing an “intense conflict of forces” while standing around with your underwear or panties [...]







