New Swingers, Parking Lots, and Butterflies

It has often been said that for new swingers, the toughest part of the journey is getting themselves from the parking lot to the front door of a swingers club. There have been many a couple who made it to the parking lot of the club with every intention of starting their Lifestyle journey, only to eventually talk themselves out of it and drive home disappointed.

The reason this can be such a tough spot for new swingers is because this act is often the pinpoint for when a couple goes from “Vanilla” to “Swinger”. This situation is also often associated with doubts, confusion, and a healthy dose of fear of the unknown at what lays on the other side of that pretty “green” door. I would venture to guess for every ten Lifestyler’s in the world, there is at least one or two couples that never made it past the parking lot. Read more

Drama: The Art of Making Sexy Time Not So Sexy!

In the Lifestyle, unlike the vanilla world the big “D” word is not Divorce, but rather Drama!  Drama is defined by Merriam Webster as:

a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict of forces

There is nothing worse than witnessing an “intense conflict of forces” while standing around with your underwear or panties at your ankles watching all eroticism flee the room!  As one navigates this incredibly fun Lifestyle highway, they will find themselves in somewhat exposed situations from time to time.  Read more

Nothing Like Candy, Roses, and a Swing Club to Improve a Marriage

A first trip to a lifestle club can be a very nerve inducing expereince.  Many a couple has made it all the way to a parking lot, only to turn around and go home.  Others may actually make it into the club, but are so worked up they set them selves up for a bad experience and usually leave early and disappointed.

What if I was to tell you:

Every couple with a good marriage, whether interested in the Lifestyle or not, should at least visit a swing club once in their adult life!

Wow, that is a pretty bold statement!  Let me tell you why even the uber-vanillas should dare to investigate us heathens out. Read more

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