Swinger Says What – Is it normal to think that way?
Today, we are answering a question by a reader who is considering entering the lifestyle with her fiance’, but is having some reservations about seeing her man with another woman. Here is the e-mail:
My fiance and I have been togther 1yr 7mo. He’s mentioned swinging, and now for the first time in my
life, I’m thinking [...]
Kissed a Girl…and liked it!
So many of our articles talk about the how to bring up the idea of swinging to a partner. Often times, we assume that it is the male coaxing or convincing the woman of the relationship to try swinging. There are also the occassions of couples who at some point experienced a taste of sexual [...]
New Swingers, Parking Lots, and Butterflies
It has often been said that for new swingers, the toughest part of the journey is getting themselves from the parking lot to the front door of a swingers club. There have been many a couple who made it to the parking lot of the club with every intention of starting their Lifestyle journey, only [...]
Drama: The Art of Making Sexy Time Not So Sexy!
In the Lifestyle, unlike the vanilla world the big “D” word is not Divorce, but rather Drama! Drama is defined by Merriam Webster as:
a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict of forces
There is nothing worse than witnessing an “intense conflict of forces” while standing around with your underwear or panties [...]
Nothing Like Candy, Roses, and a Swing Club to Improve a Marriage
A first trip to a lifestle club can be a very nerve inducing expereince. Many a couple has made it all the way to a parking lot, only to turn around and go home. Others may actually make it into the club, but are so worked up they set them selves up for a bad [...]
Six Things Your Mother Taught You About Swinging! – Part 2
As promised a couple of days ago here are the last three lessons your Mother taught you about swinging!
Life is what you make of it
Just like the wallflowers at your high school prom, if you don’t get out there, mingle, and get to know some people you most likely will have trouble finding a couple to “dance” with. [...]
Six Things Your Mother Taught You About Swinging!
Listening to the advice your parents gave you growing up, could really help you as a swinger. Whether we liked it or not, is was good advice for getting us through life then and is still good advice for getting us through the lifestyle now! Let’s look at some of that great advice dear old Mommy gave us [...]
Another Great Website You Should Check Out
(Update – As of July 19, 2008, it appears that coupledoingit is no longer an active website)
We have found another great website that is a good resource for New Swingers trying to navigate the sexy lifestyle highway. The website is coupledoingit.com. It is not a large website, but is packed with high quality resourceful information for newbies [...]
Scentsational -”For the Ladies” by Mrs. Gentlenibbles
This is post number three in the FTL(For the Ladies) a series of tips and advice for the ladies by Mrs. Genltenibbles.
Have you ever been walking down the street and a scent triggered an old memory? Or smelled someone’s perfume or cologne and it reminded you of a first love?
There’s actually a name for it! It’s called the [...]







