New Podcast on the Block – Barefeatz and Dani Sapphire at Lifestylelife

In the words of Robin Willaims,
“Good Mooooorrrrnnning Swwwiiinnngtown”
Today we would like to introduce you to a new Lifestyle podcast launched several weeks ago by a sexy couple we met on our Party Barge at the Butts, Boobs, and Boats event in Lake Travis back in July.  This sexy couple is relatively new to swinging and [...]

Observe. Report. Act.

Recent conversations with other couples in the lifestyle have entrigued us with a new concept. . . Observe, Report, Act. Many couples may be curious or interested about the lifestyle, but just like all of us, do not know what to expect. Of course, our blog is meant to provide as much information as possible [...]

From Fantasy to Sextastic Swinger Reality – Swinger Says What?

One of the most common questions we receive in our Ask a Swinger mailbox is “How do I convince my wife to swing” or some query very similar.  As a matter of fact, we have received three letters on that specific topic just in the last couple of weeks.  On the surface if that question is all [...]

Swinger Etiquette – Swinger Says What?

Today’s post is a great one dealing with one of the number one concerns and struggles new swingers face when first dipping their toes in the Lifestyle waters.  A couple new to swinging wrote us with the following question regarding how to dish up a polite rejection.
My wife and are are definitely newbies with some [...]

Going out on a Limb – Swinger Says What?

A very common topic we receive questions about here at Gentle Nibbles refers to the viability of mixing Lifestyle activities with good friends from the outside “vanilla” world. 
Today’s “Swingers Says What” question takes that a step further by asking advice on the prospects of two completely vanilla couples who are great friends and completely entrenched in each [...]

The Twenty Percent Rule

I received an email from some friends of ours in the Lifestyle the other day. The email, in response to one of our posts mentioned a rule they have that I think a lot of new swinger couples would benefit from knowing and putting into place in their swinging repertoire.
The rule is quite simple. Both [...]

A Few Simple Questions – Ask Yourselves the Five W’s

If you are new to swinging and looking for information the most common advice you will get from seasoned veterans as well as other newbies is talk, talk, talk. On occasion the advisor will give you a suggestion of one or two topics to discuss with your partner. However in our experience no two couples [...]

Six Things Your Mother Taught You About Swinging!

Listening to the advice your parents gave you growing up, could really help you as a swinger.  Whether we liked it or not, is was good advice for getting us through life then and is still good advice for getting us through the lifestyle now!  Let’s look at some of that great advice dear old Mommy gave us [...]