What if I Can’t Get and Erection? - Swinger Says What?

If I was to open my Encyclopedia Britannica and open it to the swinger’s section, I would find that one of the most asked questions by new swingers goes something like this,

“What do I do if I have trouble getting a hard on?  Is this common? What kind of reaction should I expect?”

We get emails regarding this topic quite regularly, so for today’s Swinger Say’s What? segment we are going to openly discuss this somewhat disconcerting subject.

Let me begin by taking my bull horn out from under the desk, inhaling a deep breath, and then yelling into it,

“Men of the swinging world.  You are not alone!  Since the dawn of Swinging in the infancy of the Lifestyle, men new to the situation of swapping have sometimes found it difficult to obtain an erection when trying to copulate with someone other than his spouse”

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Excuse Me…. Swinger Says What???

Today at Gentle Nibbles we would like to open ourselves up to the World, both vanilla and swinger.  We are sending out a open request for any questions you would have for us.  We are getting ready to debut a new series here on Gentle Nibbles we are going to call, “Swinger Says What?”  In this series we are going to answer questions directly from you, our readers.

So if you are not a swinger and have a question about the LIfestyle you would like to know, here is your opportunity.  Ask as crazy or personal question as you would like to ask and we will do our best to give you a honest answer.  Just like your junior high school teacher told you, “There are no stupid questions!”  We had tons of questions before massaging our first set of boobies in the Lifestyle, and we know you do too!  So bring them on! Read more

New Swingers, Parking Lots, and Butterflies

It has often been said that for new swingers, the toughest part of the journey is getting themselves from the parking lot to the front door of a swingers club. There have been many a couple who made it to the parking lot of the club with every intention of starting their Lifestyle journey, only to eventually talk themselves out of it and drive home disappointed.

The reason this can be such a tough spot for new swingers is because this act is often the pinpoint for when a couple goes from “Vanilla” to “Swinger”. This situation is also often associated with doubts, confusion, and a healthy dose of fear of the unknown at what lays on the other side of that pretty “green” door. I would venture to guess for every ten Lifestyler’s in the world, there is at least one or two couples that never made it past the parking lot. Read more

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