The Rules of Swinging – Swinger Says What?

Recently a young couple wrote to us asking for some help understanding the rules and categories of swinging.  In reality it is not that complicated and every couple kind of does their own thing. The unfortunate circumstance for newbies is when you are just starting out in the world of swinging, the worry about offending [...]

Top Ten Do’s and Don’ts for New Swingers

In the style of Letterman, with the coolness of Brad Pitt, the smoothness of Harry Connick Jr., and the spirit of Hugh Hefner we bring you the “Top Ten Do’s and Don’ts of New Swingers” So without further delay… 1.) Do talk about all things “Swinging” long and hard! If you have noticed anything from reading [...]

A Word or Two on Kissing

Kissing, while not necessarily controversial in the Lifestyle, is viewed differently by different couples. To some kissing is that special activity reserved for only their spouse. Its sensuality, intimacy, and endorphin releasing ecstasy make it an activity that some couples consider too personal to share with others. Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I are not of this [...]

The Twenty Percent Rule

I received an email from some friends of ours in the Lifestyle the other day. The email, in response to one of our posts mentioned a rule they have that I think a lot of new swinger couples would benefit from knowing and putting into place in their swinging repertoire. The rule is quite simple. [...]