If They Only Knew

Yesterday Mrs. Cardz and I were walking through the supermarket, replenishing our refrigerator after a long weekend of vanilla partying, and discussing the festivities.  Very quickly we both realized that, although the parties were held at our home and with people we had known almost our entire lives, we felt like outsiders.
It is one thing [...]

Standing Tall – Battling an Uncooperative Penis

Last week we discussed the phenomenon many new male swingers face when first entering the lifestyle of obtaining and maintaining an erection during play. 
If you did not get a chance to read that post, click here to quickly read it before going on with today’s article.  The main discussion of that post was that even though most men [...]

Full Swap versus Soft Swap

A famous writer once penned these famous words that would survive the test of history,
“To penetrate or not to penetrate, that is the question.”
…or something like that. There is a really good chance that within the first seventeen and one third minutes of entering the lifestyle you encountered the question. Are we “full swap” or [...]

It’s Raining It’s Pouring

This morning was literally a watershed moment in the Gentlenibble’s household.   It came while Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I were participating in one of favorite pastimes, weekend morning wake up sex.  For the first time in our almost fourteen years of marriage, Mrs. Gentlenibbles experienced a full blown squirting episode.  It was not small or medium, but [...]