New Swingers, Parking Lots, and Butterflies

It has often been said that for new swingers, the toughest part of the journey is getting themselves from the parking lot to the front door of a swingers club. There have been many a couple who made it to the parking lot of the club with every intention of starting their Lifestyle journey, only to eventually talk themselves out of it and drive home disappointed.

The reason this can be such a tough spot for new swingers is because this act is often the pinpoint for when a couple goes from “Vanilla” to “Swinger”. This situation is also often associated with doubts, confusion, and a healthy dose of fear of the unknown at what lays on the other side of that pretty “green” door. I would venture to guess for every ten Lifestyler’s in the world, there is at least one or two couples that never made it past the parking lot. Read more

Nothing Like Candy, Roses, and a Swing Club to Improve a Marriage

A first trip to a lifestle club can be a very nerve inducing expereince.  Many a couple has made it all the way to a parking lot, only to turn around and go home.  Others may actually make it into the club, but are so worked up they set them selves up for a bad experience and usually leave early and disappointed.

What if I was to tell you:

Every couple with a good marriage, whether interested in the Lifestyle or not, should at least visit a swing club once in their adult life!

Wow, that is a pretty bold statement!  Let me tell you why even the uber-vanillas should dare to investigate us heathens out. Read more

Come and Party Swinger Style!!!

We are really excited to be heading out to one of favorite swinger clubs tonight, club Iniquity in Houston.  We have not been out to a club since our big Birthday Party Blowout at Iniquity back in February, and are excited to be out on the town.  It is not that we have been behaving like little angels, but the past few times we have gone out have been to a few house parties.

House parties are great and usually rank a little higher on the debauchery scale, but clubs are great for meeting new couples and catching up with ones you have not seen in awhile.  As with most lifestylers, we have a family and tons of vanilla obligations.  Our adventures in the lifestyle take a back seat to our everyday lives, so we are lucky to get out once or twice in a month.  When you don’t get out very often, it sometimes can be hard to keep up with old friends, and try to make some new ones on top of that.

That is where a swinger’s club makes all the difference.  Picture having an absolute great time at your favorite bars of all time, then multiply that experience by several orders of magnitude and picture all the females in that group half naked and Read more

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