Party of Four, Your Table is Ready
February 16, 2008 by Swingercast · 8 Comments
Today we are extremely excited to bring a great post from a very special guest author on Gentle Nibbles. John from Swingercast has given some great advice for our readers. For those of you that listen to Swingercast, you are used to hearing John’s great and extremely witty advice. We hope you enjoy the post as much as we do. Be sure and leave some comments for John at the bottom so we can get him to do this again!!!
Party of Four, Your Table is Ready
So you’ve chatted with them online, exchanged photos and maybe had a few phone conversations. It has taken weeks or maybe months to arrange dinner but the night has finally arrived. (If you just read that last sentence and thought to yourself, “weeks? months? Hell, I can arrange a dinner date in 10 minutes!” Please continue reading but send this author your phone number, we should do lunch. 
Once you are all seated pay special attention to how your two hotties treat the wait staff. I think it goes without saying that a couple that has agreed to meet you will probably (hopefully?) bend over backwards to impress you. But there is always that one guy or girl, who no matter how hard the wait staff tries, will never be happy. If the waiter can’t please them at the dinner table, you might have the same trouble in bed.
The Asshole
No, not the one you “reserve for special playmates”. I’m talking about the Read more
Something Wicked This Way Comes
January 8, 2008 by Mr. GentleNibbles · Leave a Comment
A couple of days ago, we discovered a new lifestyle website that really caught our attention. A free swingers e-zine (that’s web magazine for you less technically inclined) that looks like it holds a lot of promise. The website is extremely professional in appearance and layout with an ora that screams, “Well planned, well funded, and resource heavy!” All of this, without a single pop-up, trace of spam, or overwhelming advertisements. These are descriptions rarely used when describing free adult oriented websites.
The website, Kasidie.com, is not only an e-zine but also appears to have plans of becoming a lifestyle social networking site as well. Forums are “on the way”, which will allow posters to have a detailed lifestyle profile, swinger community screennames, and pictures associated with their posts. They also are introducing a new “Flashem” concept, where users can upload a sexy pic for other users to vote on. Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I have already created a profile, and yes we even Read more
Full Swap versus Soft Swap
January 5, 2008 by Mr. GentleNibbles · Leave a Comment
A famous writer once penned these famous words that would survive the test of history,
“To penetrate or not to penetrate, that is the question.”
…or something like that. There is a really good chance that within the first seventeen and one third minutes of entering the lifestyle you encountered the question. Are we “full swap” or “soft swap”? Most “newbies” find themselves saying, “I am still a “pre-swap”, what the hell is “full swap” or “soft swap”. Fortunately, “soft swap” has nothing to do with wearing fuzzy bunny costumes while engaging in sexual activities. (Apologies to all you “furry” sex aficionados out there)
So what exactly is “full swap” and “soft swap” and what do I need to know about them. These are terms that describe the level of play you are comfortable performing with another couple. These are are actually just two of the six different “labels” couples use to describe themselves. The six of them are: (I am putting a guess of the percentage of lifestylers in each group to give you an idea of what is out there)
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Voyeurs-(less than 1%) This describes a couple who receives sexual gratification from watching other people have sex. They are not interested in being involved, but just to watch. There are very few couples that consider themselves purely voyeurs, but we have met one or two. Due to the fact it is going to be tough to find a couple that is going to invite you over just like to watch, be patient if this is what you are into. All lifestylers are voyeurs to differing extents by definition, but only a few limit themselves to this activity.
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Exhibitionists - (Less than 1%) Exhibitionists are couples who find their fantasies leading them to exposing themselves and/or performing sexual acts in front of an audience. Once again, we are all exhibitionists of some degree, but most of us do not Read more
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