Selecting a Sextastic Swinger Themed Costume for Halloween

Well, it’s that time of year again! One of our favorite times of year as swingers, and not just because of the cooler weather, jack-o-lanterns and earlier sunsets. . . if you haven’t figured it out by now, we in the lifestyle love to dress up! We don’t necessarily wait for Halloween to come around to express our creativity in our attire! Although, not always the scary, spooky goblins, theme parties are a huge part of the lifestyle.

There are tons of Web sites with club wear and Halloween costumes! Even if you don’t order from them, they can help inspire ideas. A great site for costumes is www.odgirl.com. If you’ve bought a certain brand of lingerie that you know fits, it may be wise to go with that same brand for ordering costumes online, only because their sizing is probably similar. Some online stores may not allow you to return clothing if it does not fit, so be sure to check into that. Also, keep in mind shipping times. Read more

Trick or Treat - Why Your First Time to a Club Should Be at Halloween

Halloween is just around the corner and it is one of the largest nights of the year in all of Swingdom!!  Every Club is packed to capacity with sexy people in sexy outfits behaving badly…. in a great kind of way!  I would venture to guess, that if you polled all the swingers out there and asked them what was the first swinger event they every attended, the most popular answer would be Halloween! 

Halloween allows newbies to dip their toes in the Lifestyle water, while using costumes to keep some anonymity if they prefer.  The devilish spirit of the holiday also tends to bring out the naughty in all adult parties that weekend, whether vanilla or swinger.  Long before entering the Lifestyle, we had been to a few vanilla Halloween parties that got pretty wild and entertaining. Read more

What if We Are Not That Sexy? - Swinger Says What?

This “Swinger Says What?” post comes to us from an Arizona couple and their question is regarding looks and the Lifestyle.  They sent us this email a couple of weeks ago.

Mr. and Mrs. Gentlenibbles,

Let us begin by saying “THANKS”. As very new swingers, your website has been helpful to us in providing answers to many questions.  

We are writing this letter to ask you a question for one of your “Swinger Say’s What?” posts.  Your thoughts and opinions on this would be appreciated.

Our question is this, “What is it like for average or even less than average looking couples when trying to find a couple to play with?”  We don’t consider ourselves ugly, but when looking at some of the profiles on SDC we realize we are not as attractive as many of the couples.

We are pretty comfortable with our bodies and appearance, but that does not mean we will enjoy being rejected over and over.  Are we wasting our time, or worse setting ourselves up for disappointment?

Thanks,

BJ and Marie
Arizona

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