It’s All in the Details

Have you ever been pulled over and the (very sexy) cop asked to see some “ID” while shining a flashlight at your crotch.  Or How about this have you ever been handcuffed to five different people in one night?  We can say with BIG smiles on our faces that We Have!

No! It wasn’t the Wildcardz’ first trip to prison.  As a matter of fact each of these events happened in different countries, at different swinger’s parties.

Every party or event that we have been to has been unique in some way.  But there are a few nights that really stand out for us.  Sure we can tell you which couple we played with at almost every event we went to and how each experience was unique but that’s not what we mean when we say there was something special. Read more

A Vanilla’s Take on Swinging - by Rachel Lovely

Mrs. Gentlenibbles and I, since starting this blog, have been interviewed numerous times by writers, publishers, and students wanting our input and opinions on swinging for various projects.  The essay below is from a young woman you was kind enough to send us a final draft of her work and gave us permission to reprint it here.  Contrary to your expectations Rachel argues the benefits that she sees in swinging relationships and does a very nice job of putting her arguments on paper.  Please enjoy her essay and leave a comment on your thoughts and opinions about the article.

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Sorry Agent Your Cover Has Been Blown

Let me lay the scene for you.  You’re headed to a local swinger’s party.  You’ve prepped all week. Buying costumes, finding a sitter, booking your hotel room, and trimming all unnecessary body hair.  You don your trench coats and head to the party.  At the front desk you say your name to the hostess and are quickly interrupted by someone saying “Oh Shit!”  You look up and find that this last little exclamation of profanity was uttered by someone from your Vanilla (Re: Muggle) life.  You mentally reiterate the same exclamation.

Situations like this happen every day in the lifestyle and your reactions and how you handle it are going to be depending on you and your relationship with the person you run into.  The best we can do is tell you our story and offer some advice.  For us it happened almost exactly as we stated above however we did actually make it into the party before we noticed the other couple gesturing at us. Read more

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