Home Sweet . . .Hotel

It is Saturday about 5pm.  You begin shaving, waxing and the other regiments that have become your normal routine preparing for that one night out for the month. 

You’ve carefully selected the perfect theme outfit for the party at the club.  Spray on that magical scent and you are out the door, but wait. . .do you make sure the house is tidy before you leave, just in case you and your spouse strike up some chemistry with another couple, or do you plan to get a hotel room for the “after party”? 

There are definitely many factors to consider when deciding home or hotel: Cost. Are the kids home?  Is the house clean?  Do you have entertainment at the house, although not required - swimming pool, hot tub, pool table or Rock Band?  Drive times (this can kill the mood quickly).  Read more

Personality - The Swinging “It” Factor

The science of sexual attraction is a complex beast well above my comprehension, but I do know this.  Sexual attraction inside the Lifestyle and outside the Lifestyle is very different. 

Sexual compatability is the name of the game in the Lifestyle.  Ranking far above abs, great legs, big tits, perfect lips, and an ass you can bounce a quarter off of is sexual compatability.  Sure, all of the aforementioned qualities play a large role in sexual compatability for some some couples, but even more important are things like attitude, confidence, intelligence, wit, and all thing persona!

As an individual we have specific features that turn us on or turn us off.  Things like sexy bare feet, broad shoulders, blonde hair, sensual kisser, round ass, etc.  These are qualities and images that may trigger a sexual urge in us as an individual, but swinging is not a solo sport! 

When a couple swings, they are not necessarily blindly trying to please some individual need or desire.  As a couple, they are working to increase the intensity and enjoyment of their sexual relationship as a pair. 

This may be done in part by finding that sexy blonde that is a great kisser, but it is more often accomplished by finding that right individual or couple that represents fantasies and desires while at the same time keeping comfort levels high and the chemistry strong. Read more

Hot Tub for Fifteen to Twenty…. - Swingfest 2008 Day Two

Well, Day Two of Swingfest has come and gone, and no decrease in excitement, nudity, or frivolities was noticed.

After trying to sleep in a little late, we hit the conference floor where the ladies shopped and the guys gawked at everything sexual or swinger under the sun.  From handmade corsets to swinger watches, there was no shortage of stuff on the conference floor. 
Following our shopping spree we headed to John and Allie’s presentation “It’s On, Now What? - Moving that Friendly Conversation to Sexy Playtime”.  In a room of thirty to forty people, our Swingercast friends, led a great discussion on how newbies can better “close the deal.”  With much feedback from the group, lots of information was exchanged and several newbies left with a strategy for the nights parties! Read more

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