Sorry Agent Your Cover Has Been Blown

Let me lay the scene for you.  You’re headed to a local swinger’s party.  You’ve prepped all week. Buying costumes, finding a sitter, booking your hotel room, and trimming all unnecessary body hair.  You don your trench coats and head to the party.  At the front desk you say your name to the hostess and [...]

If They Only Knew

Yesterday Mrs. Cardz and I were walking through the supermarket, replenishing our refrigerator after a long weekend of vanilla partying, and discussing the festivities.  Very quickly we both realized that, although the parties were held at our home and with people we had known almost our entire lives, we felt like outsiders.
It is one thing [...]