Standing Tall - Battling an Uncooperative Penis

Last week we discussed the phenomenon many new male swingers face when first entering the lifestyle of obtaining and maintaining an erection during play. 

If you did not get a chance to read that post, click here to quickly read it before going on with today’s article.  The main discussion of that post was that even though most men do not admit to struggling with “performance anxiety”, it is a relatively common occurence especially among new swinger couples.

Fortunately, it is almost always a temporary problem often disappearing after couples gain a little more experience and becomes more comfortable in play situations.  This however does not make the experience any less troubling for the man involved, thus today we are going to discuss some things you can do to help make your soldier stand at attention when he is most needed! Read more

If Roger Clemens was a Swinger would he dope???

We recently had the “not so unique” opportunity to play at a house party, where one of the men was doing his best Roger Clemens impression by utilizing performance enhancing drugs.  I have to say….  bring on the juice! ;)  It was a night where play got started pretty late in the evening and though I was able to show up for the party the first time with no problems I was definitely off of my game.  My recovery time to get “seconds” at the very very hot desert table took longer than I would have liked and needed a little extra attention.  I was able to actually get up to the plate for a third at bat, but by then I was pitching AAA ball.  OK enough of the baseball analogies!

Meanwhile…. 

The other gentleman was wondering around the room doing his best “flagpole” impersonation with an average recovery time of 0.000368 seconds.  During one of his rare “resting periods” we got to talking and he told me he had taken a Cialis and some “Horny goat weed” prior to playing.  He told me how great it is and that he is always like that when he takes it.

Now let me qualify this (and save my pride), by saying Read more